eye candy: extra dirty
Posted on May 15, 2008 in eye candy | 15 Comments
“This is me (with the glasses) and my girlfriend K.
drinking extra dirty martinis at Dances of Vice in New York City.” – Mirabai
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May 15th, 2008 @ 7:41 am
What a fantastic picture. That vest looks so sharp and the tie is just awesome. Loving this picture!
May 15th, 2008 @ 7:51 am
you two are handsome as all get out! what a great photo. swoon city!
May 15th, 2008 @ 9:25 am
Aw, look at these handsome girls! Dana and I are quite taken by them!
May 15th, 2008 @ 10:28 am
what a gorgeous, dapper pair.
I'm an extra dirty martini girl myself – with Hendrick's, if they have it, and all the olives they'll spare. cheers!
May 15th, 2008 @ 11:14 am
OMG this is TOOOO lovely. Very Dapper INDEED!
May 15th, 2008 @ 1:54 pm
I think I'm gonna have to steal some cute butches and take them back home with me when I come to the city on my return visit from va..
May 15th, 2008 @ 3:43 pm
Oh, ::thud:: That was the sound of my jaw dropping open with speechless joy at the gorgeous sight of two fine butches in semi-formal attire. DAMN, I may need a fainting couch soon…and a fan.
Thank You!
May 15th, 2008 @ 8:27 pm
very cute.. visit Australia?
May 15th, 2008 @ 9:45 pm
YUM.
Sin, I love your blog. Goddess bless you.
May 15th, 2008 @ 9:58 pm
Oh my! Yum!
May 15th, 2008 @ 10:02 pm
Ee! Super classy, super sexy.
May 16th, 2008 @ 4:40 am
Mmmm…delish. As if I needed anymore visual stimulation!
May 16th, 2008 @ 10:59 am
dapper, indeed! that's just fantastic =)
May 16th, 2008 @ 7:21 pm
love those expressions! penny for your thoughts? cyn.