Archive for February, 2008

an argument for butch/femme

02/29/2008  |  7 Comments

Guest post from my best friend The Muse. We were discussing a post I found earlier today called "an argument... more

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02/29/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I am so touched & thrilled at all of you who have come out of the woodwork to ask for... more

definitions on sex & gender

02/27/2008  |  1 Comment

I've added a Definitions page, for a brief introduction to some definitions of terms I often use in my analytical/theoretical... more

sugasm #120

02/26/2008  |  No Comments

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by... more

my favorite harness: review

02/26/2008  |  3 Comments

My very favorite strap-on harness, reviewed over at Eden Fantasys. It meets my three major requirements for harnesses: interchangeable O-rings, thin harness... more

nostalgia for the butch/femme dynamic

02/26/2008  |  4 Comments

Sometimes I hear people say they wish they lived in the 50s and 60s so they could experience the butch/femme... more

little bitta housekeeping

02/25/2008  |  No Comments

I've been reworking this site a bit, as you can probably tell (assuming you're not reading this via RSS) and... more

pumping: my homegrown dick

02/25/2008  |  3 Comments

One of the first things I thought, really, was, why the fuck does it have glitter and little hearts all... more

Sex Work, Trafficking, and Human Rights

02/24/2008  |  1 Comment

Sex In The Public Square Presents: Sex Work, Trafficking, and Human Rights: A Public Forum New York, February 20, 2008 - Ten... more

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02/24/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I've barely spoken to DD this week, and I'm starting to feel my own internal pressure and guilt, thinking that... more