Birthday calendar giveaway!

Perhaps you remember that I was Mr. August in the New York City Sexbloggers 2009 Calendar which came out last year. Indeed there is some incriminating evidence of me spanking a particular lusty lady in order to get a perfectly pink handprint on her ass. I was packing. I wore black & white wingtips. All the pinups looked incredibly hot, the heels … oh, the heels at that photoshoot, gah. Amazing.

Outtakes of me from the photoshoot by Stacie Joy

Have I tempted you enough with the Calendar yet? You want to win it, right? Well, for my birthday, the producer of the calendar, Tess, is letting me give away some calendars, just for fun. But don’t worry – if you don’t win, you can always mosey on over to and  buy yourself a calendar – all the proceeds go to Sex Work Awareness, which is having its first day-long seminar Speak Up! Media Skills for the Empowered Sex Worker in New York City this month.

But! If you’d like to win one of my fancy-schmancy [meaning: signed with the famous silver pen] birthday calendars, leave a comment in this thread. It can be anything – I’ll choose the winners at random – but if you’d like to leave me a blessing for my 30s, put in a request for some sort of hot dirty kinky queer sex act that you’ve never seen me write about, or tell me your favorite birthday song (I’m partial to the John McCutcheon one myself), that would be lovely. Fuck it, there have been waaaay too many birthday wishes posts already here – just leave your name & email address at the beep. Mmkay? Merci!

Photo taken by Norman Blake at the calendar release party

And thank you, for all the birthday wishes so far. There are many more fabulous shoe photos in the queue to be published this week – it’s not too late to send one in, if you feel so inspired.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

29 thoughts on “Birthday calendar giveaway!”

  1. So all of that other awesomeness aside, I don't think I've ever seen photos of you before, Sin. Yikes! *swoon*

    …Okay, I'm leaving now.

  2. Adrienne says:

    Happy belated birthday Sin!

    Wow, I really hope I win one of these calenders because you look smoking in them. W-O-W.

  3. r.c. says:

    Okay, I'll bite: for your thirties, I wish you copious amounts of blow jobs and kinky bottomy girls (like Kristen)!

    Hot photos. I'd love to have that calendar on my wall.

  4. I had to show these to dani.. :)

    look at that stud! ;)

  5. Rodger says:

    Oh Sinclair, I have the feeling we could get into a lot of trouble together and still never take our clothes off.

  6. Cravatica says:

    I am sending you birthday wishes full of awesomeness and lots of hot sex!

    I would love to win a calendar! Also, working on getting a strappy-shoe picture together for you. :)

  7. Sapphicslave says:

    Happy birthday Sinclair! Your thirties are so much more fun than your twenties, enjoy!

    I would LOVE to hang you up on my wall…it will be august all year long in my house!

  8. Missy says:

    in the tall grass of a long sun, a quiet repast and i'm sweet nothings.

    come hell, i'm your lover, your man, your friend, your fair weather.

    it's a world stopped afternoon, passion legs, you're wordless.

    all blue routes to your birthplace, chalk-white wincing pretty in it.

  9. Lucia says:

    Ok I'll Bite…


    even if you don't ask me…

    I'll still bite!

  10. ok, here's another birthday wish, in honour of the best possible year of being 30!

    sure, I won't lie, I'd love a calendar too :)

  11. Amber says:

    How I would love to win that calender just so I can hang it up in my stuffy office!!

    Happy birthday.

  12. BioGal says:

    Ooh, would a free calender wing its way over to the UK? If it could (and arrive in time for my birthday) that would be superawesome!

    Oh, and…Happy Birthday!


  13. Mugsie says:

    I already said Happy Birthday, but I'll happily say it again! Happy birthday! You should be able to celebrate for as many days as you are years old, so have fun!

    I'm considering using your birthday as an excuse to buy the most amazing pair of heels with rhinestone covered cuffs that I just found, because taking buying them so I could take pictures and send them to you would be a totally legitimate justification, right?

  14. Erin says:

    I want! And happy bday :) :) Need to send you a pic of some of my shoes.. how are you about high heeled boots?

  15. ButchTaylor says:

    Happy belated B-day Sinclair, i would adore one of those calendars. Who wouldn't enjoy your pic on their wall ^_^

  16. Amber says:

    Ohhh you know I'm in it to win it!

  17. rachel says:

    happy 30th! came out from lurkdom just for this. you’re fantastic.

  18. Luv2Lurk says:

    how'd the 30 bj's turn out? hope you got everything you ever wanted and more!

  19. appple says:

    dear sinclair,

    for your birthday, i wish you another 30 years x 2 of hot, hottness and dirty dirtyness, and also to be the winner of your sexbloggercalendargoodness.


  20. Cheree says:


    And Happy Birthday! ;)

  21. c.v. says:

    Enter me in the calendar contest, please.
    And did you ditch the 30-blowjobs-and-one-to-grow-on plan, or did that just go underground?

  22. Dulce says:

    Feliz belated Cumpleanos!

    can you enter me in the calendar contest porfavor?

  23. Am I too late? I hope not — I'd love to win one!

  24. Lena says:

    Happy late birthday wishes…I hope you have a late lunch…!

  25. I'm all over this one. The brand new femme needs a calendar with a hot butch in it. Have a fab kinky birthday!

  26. lauren says:

    happy birthday

    & i would love love a calendar

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