Posts Tagged ‘self-awareness’

Protected: “So, What Happened?”

10/28/2010  |  Enter your password to view comments.

This blog was founded on relationship drama, mine. I was in a relationship with a girl that wasn't working, but... more

How Do I Let Go of a Past Hurt?

03/11/2010  |  17 Comments

After some strong realizations about what really is the strength and foundation of my relationship with Kristen, I've been thinking... more

Love Letter #4 (Growing Pains)

03/02/2010  |  11 Comments

"Relationships take work," they say. But as someone who now knows I spent way too long in failed or failing... more

Protected: Occasional Effects of D/s

01/03/2010  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I woke early this morning, as I often do when she stays over, with the sun, because I sleep lightly... more

Yes, No, and Consent

12/28/2009  |  10 Comments

In much of the workshops and trainings around sexuality and sexual expression that I have attended, we have often started... more

Define: Sovereignty

09/18/2009  |  4 Comments

A few weeks ago, Miss Calico tweeted about the craziest thing in her feedreader. For obvious reasons, neither she... more

Protected: The Risk it Takes to Blossom: Summer Into Fall

09/01/2009  |  Enter your password to view comments.

In which I explain long and hard what I’ve been going through for the past two months. Personal and self-indulgent.... more

Protected: Breath of fire

03/19/2009  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I had a really intense dream a few weeks back about a tsunami - a series of dreams, really, all... more

Protected: letter to a friend

12/26/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Do you remember: once, we were driving in your car, not sure where we were going, perhaps home from writing class, we spent a lot of time in your car then, but I remember precisely where we were, on the freeway under the Convention Center on I-5, and I think we were coming from an event somewhere, downtown maybe. We were talking about our friends, and living our own truths, and you said you can often see the downfalls and shortcomings of those around you. So I asked you what you thought mine was. "Power," you said. "You don't know your own power, your own strength."more

Protected: hacking my brain

11/21/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I've been thinking a lot about what my current story is, my current narrative. I haven't been writing my personal... more