my favorite harness: review

My very favorite strap-on harness, reviewed over at Eden Fantasys. It meets my three major requirements for harnesses:

  1. interchangeable O-rings,
  2. thin harness straps that hit my clit, and 
  3. g-string style, also so it hits my clit

I love how small it is, it’s easy to conceal and comfortable under clothing, and it’s nylon so it washes so easily. Plus? It’s only $16.

Have you used this harness, or one similar? What’s your favorite harness style, & why? Leave a comment here or, better yet, over at the Eden review.

My other reviews for Eden:

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith is a genderqueer kinky butch writer who teaches and performs, specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They've written at since 2006, recognized numerous places as one of the Top Sex Blogs. Sinclair's gender theory and queer erotica is widely published in anthologies like Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, and online at Feministing, Autostraddle, AfterEllen, and more; they are the editor of Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 and Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, both published by Cleis Press. Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut, Sinclair's first book of short erotic stories, was published in 2014. They use the pronouns they, them, theirs, themself, and live in Oakland, CA with their boy.

4 thoughts on “my favorite harness: review”

  1. green-eyed girl says:

    Totally want to get a harness like this one. The last time we were in a sex store was in Provincetown and the lady who owned the store was showing a similar harness to a girl. She told her "honey, I've been fucking girls since before you were born and I know how to do it right" and she put the harness on over her clothes to demonstrate how to properly wear one (sadly without the dildo). Ah, good times. I regret not buying that one.

  2. Zoe says:

    Nice clear review. I'm currently look for a harness, and I can't decide g-string or double strap. I'm curious if you have ever worn g-string underwear? I'm not a big fan of them, which makes me wary of the g-string harness, but I'm not sure if the feeling is similar? I'm also hesitant to get something that would cut off access that much.

    [I'm definitely not a fan of g-string underwear, but I still love the g-string harness. If you want access, though, definitely double-strap is the way to go, g-string really doesn't allow that unless you loosen it – which is possible, but slightly annoying. –ss]

  3. Robin says:

    I prefer the leather double strap with o ring change out due to the stability while stroking – nothing more frustrating than to have everything shift. I am in the market for something for packing which this seems much more doable.

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