Archive for October, 2007

gender identity vs sexual identity

10/31/2007  |  5 Comments

Within a larger post about the Tila Tequila reality dating show on MTV discussing butch identity, a reader on After... more

butch stoicism

10/31/2007  |  4 Comments

This past weekend, a friend reminded me that my sensitivity manifests in this butch body, this gender performance, as stoicism.... more

learning to love the rituals of letting go

10/30/2007  |  1 Comment

Yesterday, October 29th, was the birthday of the first girl I loved. I haven't actually spoken to her in years,... more

Protected: why I can’t ask her to change

10/26/2007  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Two weeks ago, I got an email from The Ex-Girlfriend - not Callie, but the one before that, who I... more

sugasm #102: top three!

10/25/2007  |  1 Comment

The Sugarbutch Star story from Bad Bad Girl has been chosen as one of this week's Sugasm picks! ---- Sugasm #102: This... more

Sugarbutch Star: Bad Bad Girl

10/17/2007  |  15 Comments

I know, I’m extremely late on this. I’m attempting to breathe some new life into the end of the Sugarbutch... more

what do I do with all this heat?

10/12/2007  |  3 Comments

I've been hard for days. Ready to fuck. I take long luxurious laps at the briefest contacts to my pelvis... more

sourceless quote

10/12/2007  |  3 Comments

But what is femme? For me, femme is the confident way I move through space. It is the soft outside... more

an aspiration

10/11/2007  |  2 Comments

Sex Without LoveSharon OldsHow do they do it, the ones who make lovewithout love? Beautiful as dancers,gliding over each other... more