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State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Anonymous for Viewers? A Practical Privacy Checklist: online anonymity is usually a spectrum, not a magic cloak of invisibility.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 3): A polished, sensual continuation with the kind of slow-burn atmosphere that pulls you right in.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Architecture of Intimacy: Rewriting Love Beyond Possession, Identity, and Fear: A thought-provoking look at how love, jealousy, and possession are often shaped by bigger systems than we realise.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, When Betrayal Becomes Arousal: Understanding Erotic Survival Through a Tantric Lens: A compassionate and nuanced piece on the messy overlap between trauma, betrayal, and arousal.
Femina Viva, Submission need not be weakness: I liked this one for the way it reframes submission as something layered, deliberate, and deeply personal.
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, The Spirit Is Willing, Part Two: The Flesh is Weak: A very human piece about desire, tenderness, and bodies not always cooperating with the plan.
B R Saiph, Locked on the Precipice of Permanence: Her Decision, My Submission: An honest and striking reflection on what happens when long-term chastity starts to feel less temporary and more real. It’s a long read, but well worth it.
Product reviews
Liz Black, Hands-Free Pleasure: A Closer Look at the VVD Rider Desire & Rider Go (Plus Exclusive Discount!): I reviewed this one too last month, along with a separate review of the little finger thing. Although it can’t hold a candle to a full size saddle machine, it’s got some unique qualities of its own — the ability to swap the accessories between the mini-saddle and the handheld being the main one.
Spices of Lust, Lovense Gush 2 Review: A solid look at a toy focused on targeted stimulation rather than just being another generic stroker. Check out my own male vibrators buying guide.
SexToyDB, Saddle Sex Machines or Sybian Alternatives: What Are They, and Which Is The Best? – That’s mine. A useful guide for anyone curious about saddle machines and their alternatives before spending serious money.
Sex Work
Rogue Love Escapades, What’s in a name? The inspiration behind Rogue Love Escapades… Posts like this are always fascinating because the name often reveals a lot about the person behind the brand.
Sex Worker Search, Interview With YAS Work A worthwhile interview that gets beyond fantasy and into the politics and realities of sex work.
Danny Gold, Anal Therapy An interesting blend of body knowledge, trust, and nervous system awareness in relation to anal play.
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort A smart practical piece on the kind of logistical details that can make or break an encounter.
Oz Bigdownunder, London Eye View MMF Couple Sex Marathon Very much not subtle, and exactly the sort of full-throttle filth you’d expect from Oz.
Ellie Hart, Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Most Attractive Quality A lovely reminder that real attraction often has more to do with presence and attunement than flashy surface stuff.
Sandra, A Massage with a Twist A sexy little account of how quickly a sensual session can turn once someone admits what they really want.
Hellga, Sara Graduates Sissy School A direct dive into sissy transformation fantasy that knows exactly what it is and doesn’t pretend otherwise.
Mx Valentina, 113. Beyond the Veil: The Existential Architecture of Mx Valentina This one has a more ritualistic, mystical flavour than most, leaning hard into transformation and surrender.
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, High Maintenance S03E05 “Payday”: The Celluloid Dungeon A sharp read on kink onscreen that pays attention to money, power, and context rather than just the surface aesthetics.
Blogging
Sinclair Sexsmith, Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026) This looks like a genuinely thoughtful space for deeper conversations around D/s, kink, and creative work.
