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I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm an erotic educator, coach, and writer who studies literature, erotic embodiment, kink, BDSM, leather, and queer, trans, and feminist theory. I prefer the pronouns they and them. More about me and my work at mrsexsmith.com →here’s my number
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I like the ones walking in the middle of the street. They're all fantastic tho--kudos to both the ph...Jacks on Stardust and Sunshine, Sundust and Starshine
I love your new photo on the sidebar (in the jacket - great jacket, btw!) and you look so happy in t...Vulnerable Verbiage on Stardust and Sunshine, Sundust and Starshine
Lovin' these updates, Hon!! You look so good! So happy!! Good luck in your travels and last weeks in...
- “Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It,” Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman picked up by the Stranger’s Slog Friday, January 11, 2013
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