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Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

11/27/2013  |  13 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith,Have you tried the Spare Parts Tomboi Harness? I saw your review of the RodeoH and agree with... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: What happens to the stuff on the anal toys when you boil them?

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: What happens to the stuff on the anal toys when you boil them?

09/20/2013  |  3 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith,Ok, this is a really dumb question. When you clean silicone toys used during anal sex, do... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: First time with a girl

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: First time with a girl

09/18/2013  |  1 Comment

Hi Sinclair,I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've been out for ages, but for reasons not worth getting... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack 'n play cock!

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack ‘n play cock!

09/08/2013  |  2 Comments

Hello Sinclair,My girlfriend and I have been looking for a decent pack 'n' play cock but can't seem to find... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?

08/29/2013  |  5 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith,My butch lover refers to me as gorgeous, luscious, beautiful... [but] I just don't think those kind... more

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”

07/06/2012  |  5 Comments

Kristen & I answered Laura's question on video this morning from Seattle ... hopefully our colds don't make us sound... more

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 2: “How To Have a Successful Threesome”

06/11/2012  |  6 Comments

Following up Episode 1, "I Want to be Taken", Kristen and I answered another question for y'all, this time about... more

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions – Episode 1: “I Want To Be Taken”

05/29/2012  |  14 Comments

So Kristen and I have a new experiment ...I'm no longer writing an advice column for acompanythatshallremainnameless, so I... more

Femme Invisibility & Beyond

01/15/2012  |  15 Comments

I'm still receiving questions in the Ask Me Anything form; most of the time I am turning them into pieces... more

Ask Me Anything! No Really

09/28/2011  |  No Comments

I'm starting to write a new column on SexIs Magazine, this time it's an advice column called Mr. Sexsmith Says.... more