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Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack 'n play cock!

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack ‘n play cock!

09/08/2013  |  2 Comments

Hello Sinclair, My girlfriend and I have been looking for a decent pack 'n' play cock but can't seem to find... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?

08/29/2013  |  5 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith, My butch lover refers to me as gorgeous, luscious, beautiful... [but] I just don't think those kind... more

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”

07/06/2012  |  5 Comments

Kristen & I answered Laura's question on video this morning from Seattle ... hopefully our colds don't make us sound... more

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 2: “How To Have a Successful Threesome”

06/11/2012  |  6 Comments

Following up Episode 1, "I Want to be Taken", Kristen and I answered another question for y'all, this time about... more

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions – Episode 1: “I Want To Be Taken”

05/29/2012  |  14 Comments

So Kristen and I have a new experiment ... I'm no longer writing an advice column for acompanythatshallremainnameless, so I... more

Femme Invisibility & Beyond

01/15/2012  |  15 Comments

I'm still receiving questions in the Ask Me Anything form; most of the time I am turning them into pieces... more

Ask Me Anything! No Really

09/28/2011  |  No Comments

I'm starting to write a new column on SexIs Magazine, this time it's an advice column called Mr. Sexsmith Says.... more

Ask Me Anything: What to Wear to a BDSM Weekend?

09/14/2011  |  1 Comment

Via email, Katy asks: I will be going to my first BDSM convention next weekend ... I have a question.... more

Ask Me Anything: How to Give Blow Jobs Without Feeling Stupid

08/04/2011  |  3 Comments

Newbie asked: My partner and I are new to strap-on sex. We both love the idea of blowjobs, but I have... more

Ask Me Anything: What To Do With Old Sex Toys?

06/07/2011  |  2 Comments

Q asked: do you have any ideas for what to do with lightly used sex toys and accessories? They don't seem... more