Archive for June, 2014

Bored Kinkster Blues

Bored Kinkster Blues

06/30/2014  |  2 Comments

You’ve been an out and proud kinkster—a submissive, let’s say—for years and years. You’ve done all the things. You’ve tried... more

Happy Pride! Last Chance Submissive Playground Sale

Happy Pride! Last Chance Submissive Playground Sale

06/27/2014  |  1 Comment

It's pride weekend! Right now as I type this from the warmth of my sunny bedroom, hundreds and hundreds of... more

Free download: Submissive Starter Kit

Free download: Submissive Starter Kit

06/27/2014  |  No Comments

Since I know some of you aren't the type to make the first move, I'm going to be bold. Here's a... more

“I know I’m submissive. But where do I start?” aka “I just read Fifty Shades of Grey and I want THAT.”

06/26/2014  |  5 Comments

1. Read a fucking book Read fiction, sure—Carrie's Story, The Marketplace series, Mr. Benson, The Leather Daddy and the Femme (these are... more

What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

06/24/2014  |  4 Comments

Welcome to the kink worlds of BDSM and reclaimed sluttiness and sex toys! I see you there in the wings,... more

Some reflections on being in all-male space

Protected: Some reflections on being in all-male space

06/20/2014  |  Enter your password to view comments.

So, I did this interesting thing this past weekend. Rife and I flew to Phoenix to participate in a Butchmann's... more

This Weekend Only: Sliding Sale at the Submissive Playground

This Weekend Only: Sliding Sale at the Submissive Playground

06/13/2014  |  No Comments

Are you so broke-ass that you can't afford the Broke Ass Package? (I am too sometimes.) I don't want the money... more

A Little Note About Father's Day

A Little Note About Father’s Day

06/13/2014  |  2 Comments

My dad died a little more than two years ago, suddenly, of a heart attack. He was 60, and not... more

Submissive Playground Winner!

Submissive Playground Winner!

06/11/2014  |  2 Comments

Announcing: The winner of the Submissive Playground giveaway for the summer session is: Yasha! Thanks to all of you who... more

Win a spot in the Submissive Playground ecourse

Win a spot in the Submissive Playground ecourse

06/09/2014  |  64 Comments

Do you want to attend Submissive Playground? It's running in July & August (summer school!) and I decided that this... more