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Protected: Occasional Effects of D/s

Jan 3rd, 2010
by Sinclair.

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Posted in: a girl: Kristen, omphaloskepsis.
Tagged: basically a diary entry · communication · d/s · d/s outside of the bedroom · daddy/girl · dealing with issues · domination/submission · em dash · family dynamics · healing vs perpetuating · I tend to use a lot of dashes · issues · leave a comment at http://bit.ly/4swLsN for the password · making sense of the tangle in my brain · my own inner thoughts · power dynamics · power theory · self-awareness · ways d/s leaks into relationships · why bdsm is for extraordinary communicators

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