Archive for February, 2009

What we did on Valentine’s Day

02/27/2009  |  9 Comments

"Oh, goddamn," I gasp, a little breathless. "You are so good at that. So good at sucking my cock, oh my god." She kisses me, hard, and pulls back. "I'm not done yet," she says in that playful whispery girl tone. I groan. God. Language barely working in my mind. I kiss her again and take the back of her head into my palm, shove her down. "Do it then." She moans a little, surprised, gasping, and picks up right where she left off, cock on the back of her tongue, far. I can feel every sweet slick place in her. I work my fingers under the straps of my harness; my clit is as hard as my cock and I roll it gently, savoring, mimicking the way her mouth goes up and down. She makes it all wet and runs her tongue on the shaft, kisses it. more

What happened in January

02/27/2009  |  No Comments

I'm so behind on the roundups. I've been less focused on Sugarbutch in January and February because I've had some personal things going on, not the least of which is the new relationship with Kristen. Here's what I wrote about on Sugarbutch in January 2009.more

Review: Johnny

Review: Johnny

02/27/2009  |  No Comments

The four major things to consider about a cock are: length, girth, shape, and material. Here's how the Johnny from Babeland measures up.more

Review: Jaguar Harness

Review: Jaguar Harness

02/25/2009  |  10 Comments

Everyone rants and raves about the Jaguar harness by Aslan Leather - and I get it, I do: the leather is beautiful, it's incredibly well-made, it feels like a buttery second skin. It's snug, it adjusts well and easily, stays in place, it feels pretty good to wear - I could keep going with the general praise. You might just love this harness, many people do. Personally, though, I just prefer one-strap harnesses, so I'm not crazy about this one. more

Two Lezzys!? Really!?

02/19/2009  |  9 Comments

It was all the promised photos of my ass that did it, wasn't it? I knew it! You all are perverts.more

Important Calls for Support: Home Alive & Scarleteen

02/18/2009  |  2 Comments

I know there are dozens - hundreds - more organizations that also need support, but these two in particular are very dear and important to my heart, they're community organizations that have provided so much help and support and information to underserved, underrepresented groups. SAVE HOME ALIVE is a grassroots effort to save a grassroots organization, Home Alive, out of Seattle. And Scarleteen, which I've linked to here often and hopefully you already know about, is a sex education and resource center aimed at teens.more

Review: Bow Restraints

02/18/2009  |  2 Comments

"I feel like a present," Kristen said, and whispered, "I kind of like being objectified." I like the bow restraints. The bow itself, and that it is locked with a key - very hot. Unfortunately, they're not so easy to get on and off, and they were a bit uncomfortable to wear, too.more

Sugarbutch Star: Matt (part 1)

02/16/2009  |  11 Comments

When I look up, a few minutes later, there she is: sitting on the floor in a row I can hardly see, at first she is only visible by her bare legs on the dirty carpet, seated like I am on the floor, knees all bent, one tucked under her gray skirt which is a small mess of cover for her thighs. I slowly shift my body further into the aisle. Her back is to me, and she holds up a mirror in front of her – I catch glimpses of her face reflected. The dark nerdy frames of her glasses, the line of her jaw, her chin, then her mouth. She takes out a tube of lipstick, twirls it erect, and paints the perfect outline of her lips. Slow, real slow. She presses them together and presses them forward in a kiss, makes an O with her mouth and touches just the tip of her finger to the edge.more

Gendered Sources of Physical Power: Beauty vs Strength

02/15/2009  |  12 Comments

I don't know exactly where I first heard it, but somewhere I read once: men want to feel powerful, and... more

Where to Find Me

02/11/2009  |  1 Comment

I've got a lot of performances coming up in the next few months in New York City. If you'd like to say hi, please do! I'll have my spoken word CD and copies of the Sugarbutch Star Chapbook, if you've wanted to get your hands on those.more