Archive for January, 2009

Wait for me on your knees.

01/29/2009  |  25 Comments

I pull her up from the table and cradle her close, her naked body against me, still fully clothed. Kiss her tender and run my hands along her skin. "Now: down." I command. "On your knees." She didn't quite respond quickly enough, still looking at me heavy-lidded and getting her brain to catch up with the sensations in her body. I push on her shoulders. "Down." And she slides to her knees. I take a fistful of her hair. "Put your hands behind your back." She does, eyes shining, blinking. "Wait for me. Be right back." more

Review: Butch Jamie (film)

01/29/2009  |  4 Comments

I watched Butch Jamie recently - you can imagine why I was intrigued, there are so few butches on screen, at all!, that I like seeing my kind represented and tend to seek out the queer films anyway, so of course I picked it up. And by picked it up, I mean, Wolfe Video was kind enough to send one to me. more

Want to win a Come Together Gift Basket?

01/28/2009  |  35 Comments

Hey, let's do a little give-away, shall we? Come Together Gift Baskets specializes in sexy, sensual gift baskets made for lesbians by lesbians. These are perfect for saying, "Thank you," "I love you," "I want to see you again," "Happy Anniversary," or "I'd really like to tie you to the bedpost and have my way with you." The majority of our products come from woman-owned companies who do not participate in animal testing.more

Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

01/27/2009  |  11 Comments

Welcome to the 15th Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy! I'm your host, Monsieur du Sexsmith, as we wander around the sex, feminist, queer, and gender blogospheres to bring you some amazing reading, writing, introspection, self-reflection, and inspiration on the subjects of sexual freedom and sexual autonomy.more

Sugasm #157

01/26/2009  |  1 Comment

This week's Sugasm picksmore

Sexual Autonomy & Freedom

01/23/2009  |  15 Comments

Written for the 15th Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy. Thoughts in response and reflection to my own call... more

What happened in December

01/21/2009  |  No Comments

I'm way behind on the end-of-the-year stuff. I want to do a 2009 roundup, too - that is, hopefully, coming. Meanwhile, here's the roundup of what happened in December.more

Review: Pink & White’s Champion

01/21/2009  |  5 Comments

Queer porn director Shine Louise Houston's new indy flick CHAMPION was released on DVD by Blowfish this week, and last night I sat down and turned it on. Watch this film. Buy it, and watch it, and tell your friends about it. more

Review: Gee Whiz … the Hitachi Upgrade

01/19/2009  |  2 Comments

(It's actually a little challenging to write about vibrators ... seems very personal, which is weird, compared to all the... more

L Word Serenade

01/18/2009  |  7 Comments

Rap video by comedian Rebecca Drysdale, aka Beck D. Posted in honor of the L Word's last season, premiering today. I am one of the many dykes who has a love/hate relationship with the L Word ... more