Sinclair Sexsmith

You’re struggling.

Is it something in your sex life? Something with your relationship? Something with your gender identity?

Sessions with Sinclair will support you during whatever transition or rough patch or expansion that you are going through.

Work one-on-one with Sinclair and figure out those identity puzzles, sexuality experiments, or gender empowerment questions that have been on your mind.

Sinclair sees individual clients and couples for sex, gender, and relationship sessions via Skype and, on rare occasions, in person. They are a skilled sacred intimate, with fifteen years experience in bodywork, sacred sexuality, and the kink communities. They are also a trained in holistic peer counseling and an experienced gender consultant, and have worked both hands-on and virtually with many folks just like you.

What are you struggling with?
  • Do you want to have more pleasure in your sex life?
  • Do you miss the kinky play you used to have with your partner?
  • Want to become a better dominant?
  • Want to explore submission, but don’t have anybody to play with?
  • Are you having trouble reconciling your feminism and kink?
  • Are you ready to step into your power in a bigger, bolder way, but not sure how?

Sinclair can help you puzzle through that.

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D/s Troubleshooting

Long distance, protocol, foundations, contracts, and more

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Dominant Confidence

Make more rules, stick to them, and get what you want

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Submissive Playground

The 1-1 version of Sinclair’s popular online ecourse

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Sexy Skills

Strap-ons, flogging, dirty talk, leaving marks—what do you want to know?

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Cock Matchmaking

Need the perfect strap-on cock or harness? Sinclair knows ’em all.

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Custom one-on-one time for your unique needs
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I bet you have some questions.

[toggle title=”What does a session look like?”] A session with Mr. Sexsmith can look like many things; from a heart-deep conversation to a kick in the pants. Often, all you need is a non-judgmental listener who really gets your kink and some good conversation. Other times, a little supervision and guidance to work through a problem on your own would be useful. You may ask for a primer on flirting techniques or an assessment of your domination skills to enhance your play time. Whatever the method, Sinclair will work with you to push your edges gently, within your comfort zones. [/toggle] [toggle title=”What is ‘sacred intimacy’?”] More than anything else, sacred intimacy sessions focus on the practice of being deeply intimate with another person. The intimacy can take many forms, depending on your personal patterns, habits, and challenges. Sacred intimate sessions are sex and intimacy coaching sessions combined with embodied experiences that dive into our beings to change our old habits and create the new, intentional ways of living that we desire. [/toggle] [toggle title=”What is ‘gender consulting’?”] Have you ever wondered about how gender works? Do you wonder about how it’s effecting your business? Do you want your business to be more inclusive of genderqueer, gender non-conforming, and transgender people? Are you interested in learning some tools for gender liberation? Do you want to transition, but don’t know where to start? Do you want to be your gender more fully in your body? Do you want a safe space to explore gender with understanding and acceptance?
[/toggle] [toggle title=”Do you have a sliding scale?”] Yes. I have a limited amount of slots available per month at a sliding rate. Email me for more information and to let me know what your situation is, [email protected]
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As a working artist myself, I understand that cost is often prohibitive. I want to make my sessions as accessible as possible while still valuing my time, and not going below my “resentment rate.” I believe in a pricing being a “fair energy exchange,” or FEE, and money is just one form of energy.

Rates as of Fall 2014:
Sessions are $100/hour, one hour minimum.

Prices will raise in January 2015.


What’s it like to work with Sinclair? What do they say and how do they approach issues of sexuality and gender and relationships? Watch these videos, and check it out.

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How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?


These may not be your questions, but they are somebody’s.

What are yours?

Still not sure? Contact me at [email protected] and let’s talk.
Ready to book your session now? Here ya go! Just find a time in the calendar below and we’ll meet on Skype.

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