I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm an erotic educator, coach, and writer who studies literature, erotic embodiment, kink, BDSM, leather, and queer, trans, and feminist theory. I prefer the pronouns they and them.
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November 7, Columbia University, New York City
November 14-17, Wild at Heart & The FSPC, Seattle, WA
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Now booking workshops, events, and performances in fall 2013.
See my upcoming appearances here. Sinclair on Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
Hey Tracy! Definitely some of the harness companies are run by & designed by guys, but RodeoH is...Tracy on Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
Who makes these things??How hard would it be to manufacture a strap-on that can place pressure o...Ren on Coming Out Genderqueer: An Open Letter to My Family & Friends
This. Thank you so much for this.M on Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months
I just wanted to say that I've been a silent reader of your blog for the past 7 years, and I figured...Sinclair on Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
Well yeah! The fabric is quite pliable, so, you know, quite a few things can get stuffed in there.
- This site is a labor of love. There are many ways to say thank you, and sending me a one time donation or signing up for a monthly subscription are two of them. I really appreciate your support.
If you find yourself coming back for my advice, dirty stories, essays, and journal entries, think about it as time that we sit down and I fill you in on my life and thoughts. Want to do that over coffee, over a stiff drink, over dinner? What kind of "fair energy exchange" do you want to offer in return?Subscribers will get perks. I'm not sure what they are yet, but they'll be fun and unique and sexy. - BUTCH At the Lexington Club Thursday, November 21, 2013
- Butch: Not Like the Other Girls Thursday, October 24, 2013
- “Motley Hosts Open Mic and Guest Speaker in Celebration of National Coming Out Day.” Saturday, October 12, 2013
- Sinclair named one of the Top 10 Sex Bloggers of 2013 by LittleHussy.com Thursday, September 26, 2013
- Sinclair is #44 of the Top 100 Most Stylish DapperQs Tuesday, July 30, 2013
- What is gender artifactualism? Friday, November 29, 2013
- Desiring Faggotry Friday, November 29, 2013
- Why new words? Friday, November 29, 2013
- give yourself over to the night. Sunday, November 10, 2013
- extra:ordinary – share the story of your resilience Sunday, November 10, 2013
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