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I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, a chivalrous kinky queer butch top, and feminist sex educator, activist, and writer in New York City.

Sugarbutch Chronicles is a personal writing exploration of sex, gender, and relationships, and attempts to celebrate queer theory, sexuality, gender, culture, and identity in ways that are expansive rather than restrictive, liberating rather than limiting.

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Recent Posts

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• A girl: my future wife
• Protected: uncovering personal insecurities
• Shared Items - November 28, 2008
• Itty Bitty Titty Committee
• Review: Lollipop crop
• Sugasm #152 - editor’s pick!

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• Bettina on signed sexblogger calendars
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What I'm Doing Right Now

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