Posts Tagged ‘topping’

10 Tips for Tops

10 Tips for Tops

11/30/2014  |  2 Comments

here are many styles of dominance, mastery, and topping, from the paternal to the viciously mean, but regardless of where... more

The Four Topping Stages

The Four Topping Stages

10/30/2014  |  1 Comment

hen I started topping, I was self-conscious, nervous, easily crushed, and full of bravado and swagger. (I'd like to think... more

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

10/25/2014  |  3 Comments

Dear tops,When someone corrects your technique while fucking, set your ego aside and say thank you.Thanks for telling me. Thanks... more

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

02/25/2014  |  13 Comments

One of my biggest challenges as a top—and as a feminist dominant, and as someone who is well versed in... more

Protected: On Topping and Taking What I Want

11/01/2011  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Lately I have been chewing on the idea of taking what I want. What would I do if I had... more

Ask Me Anything: Becoming More Dominant

10/06/2010  |  6 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary:What are some tools/techniques that help someone to “try on” a... more

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

12/18/2009  |  16 Comments

I received quite a few questions about my recent post, Kristen's Homework, especially around how the power imbalance asymmetric balance... more

Review: Post Apocalyptic Cowgirls (DVD & Streaming)

10/30/2009  |  No Comments

You may have run into this little site I co-run with Hot Movies For Her called VOD.sugarbutch.net ... it's up... more

Protected: Spilling desire

10/10/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

She refused to take my fingers into her mouth and, of course, that made me want to feel the way... more