Posts Tagged ‘top/bottom’

The Four Topping Stages

The Four Topping Stages

10/30/2014  |  1 Comment

hen I started topping, I was self-conscious, nervous, easily crushed, and full of bravado and swagger. (I'd like to think... more

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

10/25/2014  |  2 Comments

Dear tops, When someone corrects your technique while fucking, set your ego aside and say thank you. Thanks for telling me. Thanks... more

From Not Stone to Stone-ish

06/11/2010  |  9 Comments

I'm finally getting around to the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary. I hope to get through them... more

Lipstick Blow Job

01/21/2010  |  10 Comments

Kristen: perfect. well i will come by around 9 then. that is late for dinner but oh well Sinclair: okay, will... more

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

12/18/2009  |  16 Comments

I received quite a few questions about my recent post, Kristen's Homework, especially around how the power imbalance asymmetric balance... more

How To Begin Playing with BDSM

07/30/2009  |  9 Comments

Recently, this came into my inbox: I'm in a relationship now with a wonderful person and I'm really intrigued and turned... more

“Can I come? Please?”

07/07/2009  |  5 Comments

Kristen gets off easily. When we were discussing it last night, she said there's a point after we've been fucking... more

Power, and a Pure Wand

07/06/2009  |  2 Comments

When things get a little out of control in my life, I crave power sexually. Crave that rush that I... more

How do you get a dominant to dominate?

06/01/2009  |  11 Comments

Unspeakable Axe interviewed me for his podcast Masochast a few weeks ago (I'll let you know when the interview goes... more

Hogtied.

05/28/2009  |  7 Comments

Kristen sits on the edge of the bed. I kneel, take her calves in my hands, shackle the ankle cuffs... more