Posts Tagged ‘tips for tops’

10 Tips for Tops

10 Tips for Tops

11/30/2014  |  2 Comments

here are many styles of dominance, mastery, and topping, from the paternal to the viciously mean, but regardless of where... more

The Four Topping Stages

The Four Topping Stages

10/30/2014  |  1 Comment

hen I started topping, I was self-conscious, nervous, easily crushed, and full of bravado and swagger. (I'd like to think... more

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

10/25/2014  |  3 Comments

Dear tops, When someone corrects your technique while fucking, set your ego aside and say thank you. Thanks for telling me. Thanks... more

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

02/25/2014  |  13 Comments

One of my biggest challenges as a top—and as a feminist dominant, and as someone who is well versed in... more