Posts Tagged ‘there’s nothing to do but work and self-care and kindness and time’

• Oh hey there.

  I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm an erotic educator, coach, and writer who studies literature, erotic embodiment, kink, BDSM, leather, and queer, trans, and feminist theory. I prefer the pronouns they and them.
  
  More about me and my work at mrsexsmith.com
  
  Photo by Meg Allen
  
        
  

• Love Letters

  Monthly announcements & newsletter & exclusive dirty stories. Plus, the password for protected posts.
  

• Upcoming events

  • 04/24/14 - 04/27/14 San Francisco, CA at International Ms. Leather
  • 05/03/14 San Francisco, CA at Threshold SF
  • 08/28/14 - 09/01/14 Northern California, CA at Camp Queer

  See my full list of events →

• Things I obsess over

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  Some of my intimate relationships: Allyson Butcher Callie DateDyke Gabrielle Hailey Jesse James Joy Kristen Madeline Mike Penny Red rife The Ex The Femme Top

• Most Recent

  • Protected: Vulnerability is a challenge Tuesday, April 15, 2014
  • The Longest Running Queer Porn Site, Courtney Trouble’s Indie Porn Revolution, is the April Feature Wednesday, April 9, 2014
  • You’re Fucking Mine: from the unpublished dirty faggot archives Friday, April 4, 2014
  • March Book Roundup: Sex, sex, and more sex Thursday, April 3, 2014
  • Protected: This week in photos: That green spring color Wednesday, March 26, 2014

• All Time Favorites

  • The quiz is here! What kind of s-type are you? 60 comments | 120,268 views
  • The Boy at Summer Camp 52 comments | 74,216 views
  • Thanksgiving in Texas 4 comments | 53,317 views
  • Reconciling Feminism & Sadism 13 comments | 52,131 views
  • The Three Minute Game 36 comments | 51,783 views
  • The Dirtiest Kristen Stories 2 comments | 46,863 views
  • How to take butch cock seriously 18 comments | 44,044 views
  • Review: Packing Cocks 101 12 comments | 43,885 views
  • Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman: "Being poly doesn't make you more evolved" 3 comments | 43,020 views
  • How things start to melt open 3 comments | 39,259 views
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• Friends with Benefits

  April 2014 featured affiliate:
  
  
  
  

  The other really good affiliates:

  QUEER PORN: Indie Porn Revolution | Queer Porn TV | Crash Pad Series | Pink Label | Heavenly Spire | Hot Movies 4 Her
  
  SEX TOYS: Good Vibes | Babeland | Early2Bed | FTM Essentials | Eden Fantasys | JT's Stockroom | She Bop | Favorite sex toys of all time at Good Vibrations
  
  & ETC: Sugarbutch Recommends on Amazon | A Small Orange web hosting | Dreamhost web hosting
  
  

  What I'd bring to a desert island

  New York Toy Collective | Vixen Creations | Aslan Leather | Crash Pad Series | Indie Porn Revolution