Posts Tagged ‘theory’

intentional vs ‘natural’ gender

07/07/2008  |  8 Comments

I did not ever mean to attempt that there is some hierarchy in having an "intentional gender" verses a "natural... more

authority on the internet

06/30/2008  |  13 Comments

"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it,... more

on butch breasts

06/24/2008  |  16 Comments

I've returned to earth - mostly - from the altered state of consciousness of the Power, Surrender, & Intimacy workshop... more

femininity & heterosexism

03/04/2008  |  3 Comments

Figleaf did an interesting experiment with Google over on Real Adult Sex, putting in "attractive," "beautiful," and "worthy" along with... more

nostalgia for the butch/femme dynamic

02/26/2008  |  4 Comments

Sometimes I hear people say they wish they lived in the 50s and 60s so they could experience the butch/femme... more

further thoughts on privilege & gender

02/22/2008  |  7 Comments

One more thing: To Belle, and to the femmes I've dated and fucked and longingly admired: Thank you. Thank you for swooning... more

passing, privilege, & butch/femme

02/22/2008  |  6 Comments

In response to what Belle wrote about privilege, guilt, and butch/femme: I can't speak (write) for all butches, and I do... more

gender code

11/08/2007  |  1 Comment

I've been reading up on gender recently, especially the "gender spectrum" (which, of course, implies a linear and hierarchical classification)... more

motivations behind my butch identity development process

11/02/2007  |  2 Comments

Yes, it's true, I said "how do I get THAT kind of girl?" when looking at the femmes, and have... more

an attempt to answer questions on gender

09/19/2007  |  4 Comments

An old friend of mine sent me an email recently, and said I could post it & my responses. So I've... more