Posts Tagged ‘theory’

Cock Confidence and the KinkForAll Conference

03/11/2009  |  4 Comments

I did my own presentation as well, and at the last minute called it COCK CONFIDENCE in a butch/femme context. I had some notes, but was also not feeling very well, and twenty minutes goes by so fast!, so I had a lot more to say about the subject that I didn't get to. Here goes.more

Gendered Sources of Physical Power: Beauty vs Strength

02/15/2009  |  12 Comments

I don't know exactly where I first heard it, but somewhere I read once: men want to feel powerful, and... more

Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

01/27/2009  |  11 Comments

Welcome to the 15th Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy! I'm your host, Monsieur du Sexsmith, as we wander around the sex, feminist, queer, and gender blogospheres to bring you some amazing reading, writing, introspection, self-reflection, and inspiration on the subjects of sexual freedom and sexual autonomy.more

Call for Contributions: Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy

01/12/2009  |  11 Comments

The Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy, edition #14 is up at Silent Porn Star, and Sugarbutch is hosting the next Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy, edition #15, here. That means, I am on the lookout for links about sexual freedom and autonomy. Email them to me to submit your site to the upcoming Carnival, which will be posted - here! - on Monday, January 26th. That gives you almost TWO WEEKS! to write something. Get crackin'!more

Marriage is so gay*

10/24/2008  |  6 Comments

Last week, I dreamt of my future wife. That's a strange thing to write down and admit, actually, especially publically;... more

On Pronouns, Mine

09/16/2008  |  10 Comments

I've had almost half a dozen people ask me in the past few weeks about my pronoun of choice, so... more

in praise of femmes: the architecture of identity

09/05/2008  |  22 Comments

This is what I learned at the Femme Conference. Oh, the Femme Conference. I have so much to say about what... more

queer bodies in psychotherapy conference

09/04/2008  |  No Comments

QUEER BODIES IN PSYCHOTHERAPY CONFERENCE www.ciis.edu/publicprograms for more information. Queer Bodies in Psychotherapy calls attention to queer sexualities, identities, and practices... more

masculinity depictions in Disney films

09/02/2008  |  7 Comments

I ran across this short film about depictions of masculinity in Disney films recently and was interested and impressed. Of... more

Gender 101 article

08/08/2008  |  9 Comments

It took a long (loooong) time, but I finally finished writing an article on Gender 101 for Eden Fantasys. From the... more