The Four Stages of Topping

October 30th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


A Dirty Excerpt from Carrie’s Story [Blog Tour]

March 29th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


Gaga Feminism Giveaway Winner

September 25th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


See You At the Femme Conference

August 16th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

June 10th, 2012 • 7 minute read • by


On Femme Invisibility

November 23rd, 2009 • 10 minute read • by


Define: Unthought Known

May 22nd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Sadism, and the Study of Pain

May 7th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


A Love Letter to Femmes

April 1st, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Kicking off the Femmethology blog tour!

April 1st, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Cock Confidence and the KinkForAll Conference

March 11th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


Gendered Sources of Physical Power: Beauty vs Strength

February 15th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

January 27th, 2009 • 9 minute read • by


Call for Contributions: Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy

January 12th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Marriage is so gay*

October 24th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On Pronouns, Mine

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity

September 5th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


queer bodies in psychotherapy conference

September 4th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Masculinity Depictions in Disney Films

September 2nd, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Gender 101 (Excerpt)

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Creating Conscious Gender

July 18th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by


Intentional vs ‘Natural’ Gender

July 7th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


authority on the internet

June 30th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On Butch Breasts, Binders, & Bras

June 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Femininity & Heterosexism

March 4th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Nostalgia for the Butch/Femme Dynamic

February 26th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On Privilege & Gender (Part Two)

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Passing, Privilege, & Butch/Femme

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


The Gender Code

November 8th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Motivations behind my butch identity development process

November 2nd, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


More on Butch Identity, Mine

September 19th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


Why we need to examine our lives

August 30th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


What Gender Is

August 17th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


This week’s gender discussion: roundup

August 17th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Butch/femme as a Disruption of the Heteronormative Paradigm

August 14th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Further Points on Gender

August 13th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


someone slightly more articulate

August 13th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


more gender frustration

August 13th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


Ranting about Gender Binaries & Stereotypes

August 12th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by