Write the Erotica You Want to Read In the World

January 31st, 2022 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Happy New Year

December 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch

December 31st, 2021 • 7 minute read • by


Titrate My Urges, Chapter 1 (continued)

November 30th, 2021 • 10 minute read • by


Writing Erotica Is Activism: An Interview With Me on Erotica Writing

November 30th, 2021 • 5 minute read • by


Titrate My Urges: Chapter 1 (Untitled, Unpublished Novel Excerpt)

October 31st, 2021 • 9 minute read • by


The Relationship Smorgasbord

October 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Monogamous People Should Read This, Too: Polysecure by Jessica Fern (Review)

October 31st, 2021 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Moving, Tumult, Settling In

August 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Crave

July 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Tools For Stepping Up D/s

July 31st, 2021 • 6 minute read • by


Could I Get A Ride, Guest Post by Betty Shade

July 30th, 2021 • 8 minute read • by


Protected: Your regular life continues after this brief interruption

June 30th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: The Aftermath

April 30th, 2021 • 5 minute read • by


Creating a D/s Training Wheel

April 30th, 2021 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Stepdown Video: “So How Was Your Title Year?”

March 31st, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: Ostara: Happy Spring

March 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


Preparation

January 31st, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by


Survival Tools for a Pandemic

January 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: First Look at a Secret Project

January 30th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Meeting Jason, Guest Post by Marcel Yeung

December 31st, 2020 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Ode, Part 1

December 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: There Are Gifts In the Dark. Happy Solstice

December 22nd, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!

November 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Further Adventures in Photos

November 30th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Is “Butch” A Nonbinary Identity?

October 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo

October 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine

October 21st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


I vote in every election because …

October 17th, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Pen Play: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series

October 5th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Sheltering in September

September 30th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19

September 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Does Volunteering Make You Feel Better? PS: Ready to Vote?

September 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


What’s Happening in September, 2020

September 2nd, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!

August 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


On Representing the M/s Title

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: leaping into something new

July 24th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Welcome

July 24th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: why write about sex during times like this

May 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Sheltering 1: Things I Have Learned

May 29th, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Looking at a Title Year

March 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Rest Is Important, You’re Right It Isn’t Fair, and Other Things I Need To Hear Right Now

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife

March 28th, 2020 • 5 minute read • by


“There Are Others Like You:” Interview with Rowdy, rife’s Puppy

February 18th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


I’m Still Not Tired of Your Company, aka A Valentine

February 17th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On

January 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


Which D/s Webinars Should rife + I Produce in 2020?

December 31st, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by