Posts Tagged ‘survey’
Have you been excited about the open relationship mini-interview series so far? I’m really loving reading all this good stuff, listening to people’s breakthrough moments, having little windows into lives where this works.
I just ran across this Polyamory Questionnaire, too, so I figured I’d pass it on to y’all in case you feel inspired to contribute.
This survey is the beginning of an ongoing research effort to gain information about the community of individuals who engage in consensual, nonexclusive intimate relationships, or who are philosophically open to doing so, regardless of their current relationship configuration. We undertake this effort in order to better understand this community, its beliefs, practices, and desires, as well as its position within the larger mosaic of humanity.
Susie Bright posted the Bathroom Sex Suvey over on her ever-entertaining blog. Here’s my answers.
What is your gender, at least at the moment? kinky queer butch top. they all greatly influence my gender.
Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define “sex” as you like). yes. strapped on with a girl sucking my cock, fingering a girl till she came, on my knees eating her out
More than once, several times, every day? several dozen times, though it was years ago now
Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? women
Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? I knew them
Have you ever had sex in a “private” bathroom— but one which wasn’t at your house? hmm … I don’t think so
Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? absolutely. showering together is fun
Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? can’t say I really have that many bathroom fantasies, aside from sex in public bathrooms, which I have done a fair amount of.
Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just “doing your business?” Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, “No, thank you?” no! but that’d be hot.
Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? not that I know of …
Are you gay? (Just kidding). sure – gay, lesbian, dyke, queer, I use ‘em all.
It seems my old Fill in the blank survey has been unearthed and has made the rounds on some sexblogs (both of whom are queer women! I’m compiling a list) & I’m happy to see it.My answers, if you’re interested, frankly haven’t changed since March, even though I do feel like I’m at a pretty different place now (single, sleeping around, “aspiring stud”) than I was then (desperately in love with someone who was horrible for me, though (and I hate to admit it) amazing in bed).
Let’s hear it, folks. Trackback & lay it on me.
My favorite way to come is:The way I come the hardest is:
What I think about to tip myself over the edge:
What scenario I imagine when I’m alone:
What I crave:
(and Essin’ Em added one more) Favorite toy:
PS: Tomorrow’s the last day, folks! Get those submissions in! I’ve had more than thirty so far – I haven’t counted after the in-flux this weekend. If you need an extension, email me. I’ve had such fantastic stories & proposals & ideas, and I can’t wait to write. I don’t know how I’m going to choose! I will be posting the first story tomorrow, and the other four will be posted approximately weekly through September. Now, if I can just figure out how to get laid outta all of this …