Posts Tagged ‘submission’

“I know I’m submissive. But where do I start?” aka “I just read Fifty Shades of Grey and I want THAT.”

06/26/2014  |  5 Comments

1. Read a fucking book Read fiction, sure—Carrie's Story, The Marketplace series, Mr. Benson, The Leather Daddy and the Femme (these are... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I'm a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?

06/06/2014  |  6 Comments

This question comes from Marie: "My partner and I have come to a difficult place in our relationship. I have long... more

Announcing! Submissive Playground 2.0: Summer School

Announcing! Submissive Playground 2.0: Summer School

06/01/2014  |  No Comments

It's true! Submissive Playground is happening again! And registration is open now, until June 30! Got questions about it? Here's a... more

Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup

Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup

01/31/2014  |  10 Comments

Little note: I use Grammarly's plagiarism detection software because duplications, while sometimes necessary, are never as good as the real... more

On Non-Monogamy by Kristen

04/27/2012  |  21 Comments

A piece by Kristen about our open relationship, dating other people, sex, a leather family vision, and BDSM. Follow her... more

Review: The Pleasure’s All Mine (book)

01/02/2009  |  5 Comments

I picked up The Pleasure's All Mine by Joan Kelly a month or so ago, and it was a pleasing, quick read. Perhaps my hopes were high, thinking she might add to my understanding of being submissive or bottoming, but unfortunately it was moreso a big of a glamorized account of being in a generally dominatrix-dominated field and being submissive.more

Protected: open up for me. you’re mine today

05/14/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

"That's right ... open up for me," I murmured in her ear - fist in her hair, holding her mouth... more

guest post: submissive impulses, and why I heart sadists

04/24/2008  |  12 Comments

This guest post comes from Muse, as part of a response to my post on the sadistic impulse. She adds... more

I like submitting, but that’s a secret

12/19/2007  |  7 Comments

Don't tell that seriously hot piece of ass, DateDyke, but just between us, my confidence is slipping. She's got double... more

on playing with control

12/08/2007  |  1 Comment

I'm on my way to the airport back to New York City from Seattle; the trip has been fantastic. I... more