Posts Tagged ‘semantics’

Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?

08/29/2013  |  5 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith, My butch lover refers to me as gorgeous, luscious, beautiful... [but] I just don't think those kind... more

A Little Bit About Butch Voices, Butch Nation, and “Masculine of Center”

08/11/2011  |  20 Comments

So, a group of folks who were on the Butch Voices board have broken off and created a new organization,... more

What Are Some Sex Positive Words for Women?

05/07/2011  |  7 Comments

Looks like this came from the Dallas Slut Walk—but I'm not sure of its exact origin. I found it on... more

Define: Masculine of Center

10/27/2010  |  4 Comments

I've been throwing this phrase around a lot lately, but I realize I haven't actually defined it or credited it.... more

Define: Outsider Complex

07/29/2010  |  14 Comments

"I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being."... more

Define: Spectrum Banging

01/07/2010  |  6 Comments

I'm not sure exactly where the term spectrum banging came from—my friends and I used it in college, I have... more

Define: Sovereignty

09/18/2009  |  4 Comments

A few weeks ago, Miss Calico tweeted about the craziest thing in her feedreader. For obvious reasons, neither she... more

Definitions of Butch & Femme

09/11/2009  |  22 Comments

Way back in April, for Sugarbutch's third anniversary, I offered up an "ask me anything" thread where readers could ask... more

Consider it “The Sugarbutch Hot 100″

06/26/2009  |  25 Comments

So, now that the trans discussion is calming down a little bit, I'm starting to get a slew of feedback... more

Define: Unthought Known

05/22/2009  |  7 Comments

The "unthought known" is a phrase that I first heard through my therapist, when we were talking about trauma and... more