Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?

August 29th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


A Little Bit About Butch Voices, Butch Nation, and “Masculine of Center”

August 11th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by


What Are Some Sex Positive Words for Women?

May 7th, 2011 • 1 minute read • by


Define: Masculine of Center

October 27th, 2010 • 1 minute read • by


Define: Outsider Complex

July 29th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by


Define: Spectrum Banging

January 7th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


Define: Sovereignty

September 18th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Definitions of Butch & Femme

September 11th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Consider it “The Sugarbutch Hot 100”

June 26th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Define: Unthought Known

May 22nd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Sadism, and the Study of Pain

May 7th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


Gendered Sources of Physical Power: Beauty vs Strength

February 15th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Define: The Do-Be-Do-Be-Do Complex

February 9th, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Define: “butch in the streets, femme in the sheets”

December 26th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Define: Courtly

December 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Define: Identity Alignment Assumptions

December 2nd, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Marriage is so gay*

October 24th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


upon returning, a small complaint

September 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


On Pronouns, Mine

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Define: Need a Word For Receiving Chivalry

September 10th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Define: Cisgender

September 10th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


what’s in yours?

August 19th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


if I had a red pen

August 12th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Define: Transmasculine

August 11th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


If I Was Being Really Honest

August 6th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


if I could speak

July 28th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


if asked of the state of my heart

July 16th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

May 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Butch Flight, Dress-Up Test, Gender Galaxy, and Other Definitions

February 27th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by