Posts Tagged ‘sadism’

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences  ... help!

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences … help!

04/18/2014  |  10 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith, I am a strong, opinionated, sometimes bossy, lesbian. I have a huge passion for the empowerment, education... more

I want more.

10/20/2013  |  9 Comments

I want more. Crave it. Seek it. For every inch you give, I want two. For every mile you run, I... more

Protected: On Opening Up My Relationship with Kristen

03/21/2012  |  Enter your password to view comments.

“Are you chatting with your boyfriend?” Kristen asked me the other night after she came home from work. I was... more

Reconciling Feminism & Sadism

06/29/2010  |  11 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary: How do you reconcile your feminism with your sadism and desire... more

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

12/18/2009  |  16 Comments

I received quite a few questions about my recent post, Kristen's Homework, especially around how the power imbalance asymmetric balance... more

Sadism, and the Study of Pain

05/07/2009  |  9 Comments

i have noticed elsewhere online that you have added ’sadistic’ to your lineup of adjectives. i was very interested in... more

guest post: submissive impulses, and why I heart sadists

04/24/2008  |  12 Comments

This guest post comes from Muse, as part of a response to my post on the sadistic impulse. She adds... more

the sadistic impulse

04/21/2008  |  11 Comments

me: I want to smack your ass her: that's exciting to me. how do you feel when you're doing that? me: strong,... more