Posts Tagged ‘processing’

Protected: Back on the Path

02/24/2013  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Sometimes, I lament the fact that I am not more of a professional spoken word poet. I love that medium,... more

Thanksgiving in Texas

11/26/2012  |  4 Comments

I've been in Dallas with Kristen's family for the last few days for the Thanksgiving holiday. We did a Dirty... more

Consuming Porn of Other Orientations

07/01/2010  |  6 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary: My question is more on the philosophical/political side of things.Do... more

Reconciling Feminism & Sadism

06/29/2010  |  11 Comments

From the Ask Me Anything questions from Sugarbutch's 4th anniversary: How do you reconcile your feminism with your sadism and desire... more

On Processing & Analyzing

06/07/2010  |  33 Comments

Here's the thing.People have told me—in comments, in emails, sometimes even my friends in person make little comments or... more

Protected: moving backward, moving forward

08/07/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I wrote this a week ago, in the thick of the emotional aftermath of the breakup with Penny and in... more

Protected: my issues + her issues

07/04/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

About Penny.I realized yesterday that there are no sex stories on the front page, here. I wrote a few good... more

Protected: this place of mild panic

06/16/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Today I can feel myself hardening.Undefend, undefend, I keep reminding myself. Behave as though your heart is open.I snapped to... more