Protected: Kristen’s Homework: Will Return Soon
Posted on January 7, 2010 in Kristen | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen | Tags: d/s outside of the bedroom, domination/submission, homework, kristen's homework, my own issues, overgiving and taking care of my own needs, password, relationships, secretary, this relationship is built by two of us
Protected: Occasional Effects of D/s
Posted on January 3, 2010 in Kristen, omphaloskepsis | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen, omphaloskepsis | Tags: basically a diary entry, communication, d/s, d/s outside of the bedroom, daddy/girl, dealing with issues, domination/submission, em dash, family dynamics, healing vs perpetuating, I tend to use a lot of dashes, issues, making sense of the tangle in my brain, my own inner thoughts, password, power dynamics, power theory, self-awareness, ways d/s leaks into relationships, why bdsm is for extraordinary communicators
Protected: Kristen’s Homework: At the End of the Year
Posted on December 29, 2009 in Kristen | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen | Tags: best lesbian erotica, cooking, follow kristen on twitter it's fun, homework, homework will return next week (hopefully), kristen, kristen's homework, no homework this week, password, sovereignty, taking care of ourselves
Protected: Kristen’s Homework: Holiday Version
Posted on December 22, 2009 in Kristen | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen | Tags: books, d/s play outside the bedroom, early kinky "roots" of mine, family dynamics, kristen's homework, made private because this stuff is so personal, password, recommended reading, someone to say "yes this is really happening", the part where she gets her own drawer at my house, tristan taormino
Protected: Kristen’s Homework
Posted on December 14, 2009 in Kristen | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen | Tags: assignments, boundaries, d/s, domination/submission, edgeplay, games with kristen, homework, password, pushing boundaries, taking d/s outside the bedroom, ways to write about my sex life without writing about my sex life
Protected: My Evolving Masculinity, Part Three: “Daddy”
Posted on October 20, 2009 in Kristen, on butches, theory | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen, on butches, theory | Tags: butch identity, daddy, daddy/girl, dirty talk, fantasies, it's been a month since I wrote this and our daddy/girl play has very much evolved, masculinity, my evolving masculinity, password, please be gentle with this one, role play, things kristen says that turn me on, things that are incredibly hot, things that have scared me in the past but are now a big part of my sex life, this feels so personal to reveal
Protected: Inner Kingdom
Posted on September 18, 2009 in Callie | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Callie | Tags: emotional landscape, healing, heartbreak, kristen, letting myself love, love, notes to myself, password, PTSD, ramblings, relationships, selfbreak, she can't hurt me now, sovereignty, this is not about her, trauma
Protected: The Risk it Takes to Blossom: Summer Into Fall
Posted on September 1, 2009 in Kristen, omphaloskepsis | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen, omphaloskepsis | Tags: “I hope you get bedbugs!” is my favorite insult, bedbugs, fall is my favorite season, finding grace, growth requires the temporary suspension of security, if I just write it all in one big BLAH maybe I’ll make sense of it somehow, it is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society, password, pop psychology, relationships, self-awareness, thank heavens it’s almost fall, this is too much for one single entry but I wasn’t about to make it an ongoing saga, what I learned about relationships this summer
Protected: Untitled
Posted on August 24, 2009 in poetry | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: poetry | Tags: any suggestions for a title?, building slowly, emotional trauma, extended metaphors, foundation, healing, how to build something that lasts, password, poetry, ruler tattoo, the pain of adulthood, things that paralyze me, this helped me break through some things last week, took me a week to write but the end was such a relief, usually I'm good at titles but this one is hard
Protected: Quick Fuck in a Shadowed Corner, reprise
Posted on May 29, 2009 in Kristen, stories to turn you on | Enter your password to view comments.
Enter your password to view comments. | Category: Kristen, stories to turn you on | Tags: erotica, how'd I end up on virgin night?, in the flesh erotica reading series, my secret identity is really being blown, new york city, password, performances, rachel kramer bussel, spoken word, video, videos of me
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Sugarbutch Chronicles is an online writing project (aka “blog”) which explores sovereignty, healing, and communication through the personal examinations of sex, gender, and relationships, while celebrating queer sexuality, gender, culture, and identity in ways that are expansive rather than restrictive, liberating rather than limiting.More of Me
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My Work Elsewhere- The Center Hosts Lesbian Erotica at the LGBT Center in NYC Saturday, April 28, 2012
- A Leather Conversation with Sassafras Lowrey and Sinclair Sexsmith on Lambda Literary Tuesday, April 24, 2012
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- Say Please: An Interview With Sinclair Sexsmith About Kinky Lesbian Smut on Good Vibes Magazine Thursday, April 5, 2012
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