Five Blow Jobs on the Me & My Boi blog tour

June 15th, 2016 • 2 minute read • by


How rife & I Created Our D/s Protocol

March 1st, 2016 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: I want to take advantage.

January 22nd, 2016 • 5 minute read • by


What the Heck is “Sub Space,” Anyway? Guest Post by rife

August 31st, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality, Guest Post by rife

January 22nd, 2015 • 6 minute read • by


I Want You to Thrive: How to Use the Submissive Playground “Tracks”

January 16th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


I just need to use you.

January 8th, 2015 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: Sexting

November 13th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: The Collaring Ceremony

November 6th, 2014 • 10 minute read • by


Protected: Leather: A Dirty Story in Photos

September 6th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Daddy’s Good Boy

July 11th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

June 24th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


Protected: Some reflections on being in all-male space

June 20th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


A Little Note About Father’s Day

June 13th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: This week in photos: porn, pancakes, and green things.

June 5th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: Two Weeks Ago in photos: California staycation

June 4th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Take the (new!) S-Type Quiz

June 3rd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Announcing! Submissive Playground 2.0: Summer School

June 1st, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


The Identity Project: “Butch daddy poet” and “Genderqueer leather boy”

May 30th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


What It Means To Love You

May 23rd, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: The most holy things I do

May 22nd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Fantasy, Gardens, & Politics of Butch Identity in April’s Book Roundup

May 6th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: This month in photos, part one: in which I turn 35 and visit Seattle

April 28th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Happy Birthday, rife!

April 24th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Treehouse Poem

April 21st, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Vulnerability is a challenge

April 15th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: You’re Fucking Mine

April 4th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


The Beautiful Permission

March 25th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


Counting Down

March 17th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


When I’m getting off

March 3rd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


On the road again … Portland + Princeton

February 4th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


How I make my boy do the dishes

January 27th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: The Threat of Folding In

January 22nd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


So what ARE the different kinds of s-types? And more about the s-type quiz

December 11th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Fragments

December 10th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


What’s in our sex den? Books, of course.

December 6th, 2013 • 1 minute read • by


The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now

December 4th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Hole Hunger

December 2nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


The quiz is here! What kind of s-type are you?

November 30th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy

November 22nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Video: Sinclair reads Five Blow Jobs (And oh yeah, hi)

November 21st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Dirty Queer Sex Workshops in Seattle November 14-17

November 5th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


How to Chomp: Erotic Biting for Pleasure & Pain

November 5th, 2013 • 10 minute read • by


Review (& Photos!): Aslan Leather TG Chest Harness

October 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


I want more.

October 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months

October 2nd, 2013 • 15 minute read • by


Two years with Rife

September 17th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #17

September 16th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #16

September 13th, 2013 • 14 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #13

September 9th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by