Queer sex, kink, gender, and relationships by Sinclair Sexsmith
All Dirty Stories
Kink & D/s
About & Contact
Five Blow Jobs on the Me & My Boi blog tour
How rife & I Created Our D/s Protocol. Plus: Invitation to the new Protocol ecourse
Protected: I want to take advantage.
What the Heck is “Sub Space,” Anyway? Guest Post by rife
Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality, Guest Post by rife
I Want You to Thrive: How to Use the Submissive Playground “Tracks”
I just need to use you.
Protected: From the Dirty Faggot Archives: Sexting
Protected: The Collaring Ceremony
Protected: Leather: A Dirty Story in Photos
Daddy’s Good Boy
What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities
Protected: Some reflections on being in all-male space
A Little Note About Father’s Day
Protected: This week in photos: porn, pancakes, and green things.
Protected: Two Weeks Ago in photos: California staycation
Take the (new!) S-Type Quiz
Announcing! Submissive Playground 2.0: Summer School
The Identity Project: “Butch daddy poet” and “Genderqueer leather boy”
What It Means To Love You
Protected: From the Dirty Faggot Archives: The most holy things I do
Fantasy, Gardens, & Politics of Butch Identity in April’s Book Roundup
Protected: This month in photos, part one: in which I turn 35 and visit Seattle
Happy Birthday, rife!
Protected: Vulnerability is a challenge
From the Dirty Faggot Archives: You’re Fucking Mine
The Beautiful Permission
When I’m getting off
On the road again … Portland + Princeton
How I make my boy do the dishes
Protected: The Threat of Folding In
So what ARE the different kinds of s-types? And more about the s-type quiz
What’s in our sex den? Books, of course.
The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now
The quiz is here! What kind of s-type are you?
Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy
Video: Sinclair reads Five Blow Jobs (And oh yeah, hi)
Dirty Queer Sex Workshops in Seattle November 14-17
How to Chomp: Erotic Biting for Pleasure & Pain
Review (& Photos!): Aslan Leather TG Chest Harness
I want more.
Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months
Two years with Rife
Protected: Making Peace #17
Protected: Making Peace #16
Protected: Making Peace #13