Posts Tagged ‘masculinity’

Top Hot Butches 2009 – official launch!

06/22/2009  |  19 Comments

TopHotButches.com is live! Here it is, folks - the project we've been talking up on twitter for weeks now: Top Hot... more

Personal favorites, and more answers

05/12/2009  |  3 Comments

More answers to questions (from bzzzzgrrrl of City Mouse Country). What’s your favorite bit of smut you’ve written in the last... more

For every girl, there is a boy …

04/27/2009  |  6 Comments

I don't remember why, but at some point this weekend I thought, "I should find that Gender Subversion poster and... more

What do you call your butch?

04/20/2009  |  36 Comments

Specifically, when she's a top, what do you call her in bed? Sir? Daddy? Master? Boi? If she's a bottom,... more

My Father’s Son

12/03/2008  |  25 Comments

Dad, were you wondering how I got here? How I went from that tree-climbing skinned-knee ragamuffin girl to this prettyboy? ... I never was your tomboy daughter, never got in fights with the boys in the neighborhood, never stood up to the bullies of my younger sisters. I was the artistic one, moody, on my own. Studying my peers as we metamorphosed into our adult bodies.more

masculinity depictions in Disney films

09/02/2008  |  7 Comments

I ran across this short film about depictions of masculinity in Disney films recently and was interested and impressed. Of... more

in praise of femmes: hair & shaving

08/28/2008  |  37 Comments

Thanks, all, for your thoughtful responses and life stories about butch hair in the last post. Here's a few of my... more

on butches: hair

08/26/2008  |  31 Comments

I am a butch who shaves. Not my legs, inner thighs, stomach, underarms (though I'll get to those in a moment),... more

tough guise: compulsory masculinity

05/16/2008  |  5 Comments

This video, Tough Guise: Violence, Media, & the Crisis in Masculinity narrated by Jackson Katz, was something I first watched... more

pumping: my homegrown dick

02/25/2008  |  3 Comments

One of the first things I thought, really, was, why the fuck does it have glitter and little hearts all... more