Posts Tagged ‘integrity’

On Gender Perception, or: Break Your Eyes Open to Genderqueers

On Gender Perception, or: Break Your Eyes Open to Genderqueers

10/09/2014  |  13 Comments

For a little more than three years, I’ve been using they/them/theirs/themself pronouns. Notice that I’m avoiding saying that I “prefer”... more

Do rough sex fantasies compromise your sex-positive ethics?

Do rough sex fantasies compromise your sex-positive ethics?

09/11/2014  |  2 Comments

This new essay is also the introduction to my new book, Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut, available... more

What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

06/24/2014  |  4 Comments

Welcome to the kink worlds of BDSM and reclaimed sluttiness and sex toys! I see you there in the wings,... more