Posts Tagged ‘identity’

What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

06/24/2014  |  4 Comments

Welcome to the kink worlds of BDSM and reclaimed sluttiness and sex toys! I see you there in the wings,... more

Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

02/03/2014  |  14 Comments

It is definitely true that I don't have investment in being seen and treated as male, but I DO have... more

More dirty things than you can read in one sitting

05/10/2013  |  1 Comment

Alright, so they're not all dirty. But many of them are very dirty. Definitely R rated, sometimes NC-17. Remember back... more

See You At the Femme Conference

08/16/2012  |  1 Comment

So I got my hair cut at Tomcats, Kristen painted her nails with black-white-and-blue stripes and a red heart (wonder... more

Are You “Femme Enough” For the Femme Conference?

07/25/2012  |  5 Comments

I'm in Chicago this week, I return back to New York City tomorrow, and I keep talking up the Femme... more

Femme Invisibility & Beyond

01/15/2012  |  15 Comments

I'm still receiving questions in the Ask Me Anything form; most of the time I am turning them into pieces... more

Protected: Coming Out

10/18/2011  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Last week, October 11th was National Coming Out Day. I saw it announced at various places, I saw friends make... more

Gender Celebration Blog Carnival: Living Gender

07/15/2011  |  6 Comments

Ellie Lumpesse has been curating a Gender Celebration Blog Carnival, and today's my day to participate. The topic is "living... more

Mini Interview: Just Jess

06/10/2011  |  No Comments

"I'm not sure that I identify with the word "butch". I mean, people may see me as butch, but I wouldn't say that I am. I absolutely love my butch sisters but I just don't feel like it describes me the way that I see myself."more

Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

05/31/2011  |  6 Comments

rhapsodyblue asked: I’m a FAAB genderqueer pansexual in a long-term monogamous relationship with a straight cissexual guy. I adore him, he... more