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Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

February 3rd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


More dirty things than you can read in one sitting

May 10th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


See You At the Femme Conference

August 16th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Are You “Femme Enough” For the Femme Conference?

July 25th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Femme Invisibility & Beyond

January 15th, 2012 • 9 minute read • by


Protected: Coming Out

October 18th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by


Living Gender

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Mini Interview: Just Jess

June 10th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

May 31st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


So Brown: Mini-Interview

January 4th, 2011 • 1 minute read • by


National Coming Out Day & Matthew Shepard

October 12th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


SweLL featuring Anna Camilleri, Ivan E Coyote, & Lyndell Montgomery

September 22nd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity

September 17th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


Definitions of Butch & Femme

September 11th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Define: Identity Alignment Assumptions

December 2nd, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity

September 5th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


Intentional vs ‘Natural’ Gender

July 7th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Lesbian stereotypes, reclaiming language, and activism

July 1st, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


Gender Frustrations and Clarifications

May 27th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch (again)

May 8th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

May 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Lesbian bed death, Butch/femme dating, and More Femme Worship (Plus Q&A)

May 1st, 2008 • 9 minute read • by


The Sadistic Impulse

April 21st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Passing, Privilege, & Butch/Femme

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Re-Valuing Masculinity

February 1st, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Do I pack daily?

December 19th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Trans vs Butch Identity

December 15th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Motivations behind my butch identity development process

November 2nd, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Butch Stoicism

October 31st, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


What Gender Is

August 17th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


Butch/femme as a Disruption of the Heteronormative Paradigm

August 14th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by