Posts Tagged ‘identity development’

Bored Kinkster Blues

Bored Kinkster Blues

06/30/2014  |  2 Comments

You’ve been an out and proud kinkster—a submissive, let’s say—for years and years. You’ve done all the things. You’ve tried... more

So Butch Voices NYC Is Over …

09/29/2010  |  2 Comments

And it was fantastic. I want to tell you all about it, and I barely know where to start. It... more

Label me, Genderstats

06/03/2009  |  18 Comments

Hello My name... more

Define: Unthought Known

05/22/2009  |  7 Comments

The "unthought known" is a phrase that I first heard through my therapist, when we were talking about trauma and... more

Sadism, and the Study of Pain

05/07/2009  |  9 Comments

i have noticed elsewhere online that you have added ’sadistic’ to your lineup of adjectives. i was very interested in... more

Sexual Autonomy & Freedom

01/23/2009  |  15 Comments

Written for the 15th Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy. Thoughts in response and reflection to my own call... more

Call for Contributions: Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy

01/12/2009  |  11 Comments

The Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy, edition #14 is up at Silent Porn Star, and Sugarbutch is hosting the next Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy, edition #15, here. That means, I am on the lookout for links about sexual freedom and autonomy. Email them to me to submit your site to the upcoming Carnival, which will be posted - here! - on Monday, January 26th. That gives you almost TWO WEEKS! to write something. Get crackin'!more

femme conference roundup, & links

09/05/2008  |  10 Comments

Now that I am finally putting my thoughts together about the femme conference, here is a small roundup of other... more

on butch style: briefs

07/23/2008  |  21 Comments

I still remember the day I had an awakening about my underwear, much like my butch breasts / bras moment... more

authority on the internet

06/30/2008  |  13 Comments

"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it,... more