Posts Tagged ‘how the hell do I make this into my job’

• Oh hey there.

  I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm an erotic educator, coach, and writer who studies literature, erotic embodiment, kink, BDSM, leather, and queer, trans, and feminist theory. I prefer the pronouns they and them.
  
  More about me and my work at mrsexsmith.com
  
  Photo by Meg Allen
  
        
  

• Love Letters

  Monthly announcements & newsletter & exclusive dirty stories. Plus, the password for protected posts.
  

• Upcoming events

  • 03/21/14 - 03/24/14 Saratoga Springs, CA at M/s Retreat
  • 04/06/14 Seattle, WA at Private venue Buy Tickets
  • 04/24/14 - 04/27/14 San Francisco, CA at International Ms. Leather
  • 05/03/14 San Francisco, CA at Threshold SF
  • 08/28/14 - 09/01/14 Northern California, CA at Camp Queer

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• Things I obsess over

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  Some of my intimate relationships: Allyson Butcher Callie DateDyke Gabrielle Hailey Jesse James Joy Kristen Madeline Mike Penny Red rife The Ex The Femme Top

• Most Recent

  • Protected: This week in photos: Playing tourist in SF Monday, March 10, 2014
  • Review: Aneros Evi G-Spot Massager Sunday, March 9, 2014
  • Protected: “And bowing not knowing to what” Wednesday, March 5, 2014
  • Ready to explore “embodiment”? Three workshop offerings in Seattle & San Francisco in March & April Tuesday, March 4, 2014
  • When I’m getting off Monday, March 3, 2014

• All Time Favorites

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  • Reconciling Feminism & Sadism 13 comments | 32,852 views
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  • Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman: "Being poly doesn't make you more evolved" 3 comments | 23,627 views
  • Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning? 11 comments | 22,807 views
  • How to take butch cock seriously 17 comments | 22,138 views
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• Friends with Benefits

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  What I'd bring to a desert island

  New York Toy Collective | Vixen Creations | Indie Porn Revolution