14 ways of looking at New York

January 27th, 2016 • 2 minute read • by


The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments

September 26th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


Protected: Some reflections on being in all-male space

June 20th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

February 3rd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now

December 4th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Coming Out Genderqueer: An Open Letter to My Family & Friends

November 26th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Review: Jam Body Tank, aka Compression Tank, aka Faux-Binder

August 21st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Outside the Boxes: Celebrating the Queer Body Erotic in Philadelphia March 1-3

February 4th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Body Hair, Pronouns, and Other Personal Gender Things I’m Figuring Out

December 14th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by


Review: Sexing the Transman XXX DVD

December 9th, 2011 • 1 minute read • by


Living Gender

July 15th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by


Nominations Needed for Top Hot Butches

October 29th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by


Ten Ways I Am A Gender Outlaw

October 8th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by


Countdown to the Femme Conference: Two Weeks

August 6th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


“There’s a Man in the Woman’s Room NOT” by Kelli Dunham

July 4th, 2010 • 1 minute read • by


Review: Lesbian Cowboys (Book)

June 18th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Deluxe Packing Pouch

June 16th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


The Great LGBTQ Photo Show Opens Next Week

June 11th, 2010 • 1 minute read • by


Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

December 18th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by


On Femme Invisibility

November 23rd, 2009 • 10 minute read • by


Bent Mentor Showcase in Seattle

October 26th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


My Evolving Masculinity, Part Two: Yin & Yang

October 14th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by


Bucking the System: Buck Angel Q&A

October 8th, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity

September 17th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


Definitions of Butch & Femme

September 11th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


A Butch Roadmap

July 16th, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Label me, Genderstats

June 3rd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Define: Unthought Known

May 22nd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Poll: What do you think about labels?

May 12th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


For every girl, there is a boy …

April 27th, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


A Love Letter to Femmes

April 1st, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


On Butch Eyebrows: waxed or natural?

March 31st, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Pumping: How to Grow a Dick

March 11th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by


Cock Confidence and the KinkForAll Conference

March 11th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


On Butches: Coming Inside

March 5th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Gendered Sources of Physical Power: Beauty vs Strength

February 15th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

January 27th, 2009 • 9 minute read • by


Sexual Autonomy & Freedom

January 23rd, 2009 • 4 minute read • by


Define: “butch in the streets, femme in the sheets”

December 26th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Define: Identity Alignment Assumptions

December 2nd, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Bring it on: Ongoing call for Queer Eye Candy

November 6th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On being a (gender) freak in New York City

October 8th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


upon returning, a small complaint

September 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


On Pronouns, Mine

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Masculinity Depictions in Disney Films

September 2nd, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


On Butches: Hair

August 26th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Gender 101 (Excerpt)

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Telling Her What to Wear

July 28th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


On Butch Style: Briefs

July 23rd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Creating Conscious Gender

July 18th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by