Posts Tagged ‘fetish’

What’s On My Mind

You in stockings and a garter, pussy bare, black bra, your lips and eyes darkened. Heels strapped around your ankles that I take off, or maybe not. Black and red silk ropes around your thighs, under your knees, around your ankles, around your wrists. Smooth ropes on the smooth stockings and I love the texture, [...]

telling her what to wear

I have in the past thought it kind of funny that girls would ask me to tell them what to wear. My feminist/analytical brain would pipe in with interpretations of beauty, insecurity, self-worth – but I really don’t see it that way anymore. I see it as part of the larger conversation of gender as [...]

in praise of femmes: fishnets

Some meditations on fishnets, and femmes: Alison spoke of fishnets once upon a time, and well, speaking of fishnets … it got me thinking. I have a bit of a fetish. I have a thing for legs anyway, which is why I try not to surf sites like Sock Dreams at work, because it really [...]

fisting in time out

Sinclair Sexsmith – ahem, that would be me – has been quoted in this week’s Time Out New York magazine (thanks to Viviane) about fisting.It’s under the Pick-a-fetish megachart, the penultimate of the list, almost at the end. Not a bad quote, entirely: “Go slow, slow, slow and use lots of lube,” says Sinclair Sexsmith, [...]

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