This Is How I Want You Next

June 27th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by


femme conference 2008

June 26th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch (again)

May 8th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

May 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Lesbian bed death, Butch/femme dating, and More Femme Worship (Plus Q&A)

May 1st, 2008 • 8 minute read • by


Femme Outfits, Fantasy, and more Q&A

April 29th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by


The Sadistic Impulse

April 21st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


The personal ad I’m not posting

April 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


march masthead: bringing butch back

March 20th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


couple, in b&w

March 18th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by


Femininity & Heterosexism

March 4th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


On Privilege & Gender (Part Two)

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Passing, Privilege, & Butch/Femme

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


the therapy session

February 15th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Re-Valuing Masculinity

February 1st, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


The Houseboy’s Rebellion

January 13th, 2008 • 12 minute read • by


under my radar

January 2nd, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


the hotel room (part three)

December 28th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by


the hotel room (part two)

December 27th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by


butch/femme holiday guide

December 19th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


I like submitting, but that’s a secret

December 19th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


the stakes have been raised

December 17th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


whatever you want

December 17th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Femme, A Matter of Intent

December 6th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


what is it you … want?

November 26th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


Femme as a Trans Identity

November 13th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


“Femme is Pure Strength”

October 12th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


More on Butch Identity, Mine

September 19th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


broken, breaking

September 16th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


ask for what you want

September 7th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


I top on the third date

September 5th, 2007 • 6 minute read • by


a couple things to clarify

August 31st, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Why we need to examine our lives

August 30th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Top 10 things I love about femmes

August 28th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


thank you ladies. you didn’t have to say that*

August 27th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: I did, and we did

August 24th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: reset button

August 22nd, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


What Gender Is

August 17th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


Gender Is A Sex Toy

August 17th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


This week’s gender discussion: roundup

August 17th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Butch/femme as a Disruption of the Heteronormative Paradigm

August 14th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Further Points on Gender

August 13th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


someone slightly more articulate

August 13th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


more gender frustration

August 13th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


Ranting about Gender Binaries & Stereotypes

August 12th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by


The Diner on the Corner (Part Two)

August 8th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by


The Diner on the Corner (Part One)

August 7th, 2007 • 8 minute read • by


Bully

July 23rd, 2007 • 6 minute read • by


some amendments

July 19th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by


famous femmes I would fuck in a heartbeat

July 19th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by