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I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm an erotic educator, coach, and writer who studies literature, erotic embodiment, kink, BDSM, leather, and queer, trans, and feminist theory. I prefer the pronouns they and them. More about me and my work at mrsexsmith.com →here’s my number
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- “Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It,” Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman picked up by the Stranger’s Slog Friday, January 11, 2013
- “What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse?” Advice on What They Are Asking Tuesday, December 4, 2012
- The Three Minute Game on Good Vibes Magazine Wednesday, November 7, 2012
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