Posts Tagged ‘dating’

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

02/25/2014  |  13 Comments

One of my biggest challenges as a top—and as a feminist dominant, and as someone who is well versed in... more

This week in photos: Yosemite & back

Protected: This week in photos: Yosemite & back

02/24/2014  |  Enter your password to view comments.

valentine in progress The boy is excited about the train ride Early morning train to Entrance... more

Sugarbutch Star: blckndblue, “The Pink Dress”

01/01/2012  |  8 Comments

Do y'all remember the Sugarbutch Star stories? It was a series where readers sent in a scenario and I wrote... more

Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”

05/02/2011  |  2 Comments

J-femme wrote: Happy Anniversary! I think I’ve been reading almost that long! You posted something that looked like a pie chart... more

Protected: “So, What Happened?”

10/28/2010  |  Enter your password to view comments.

This blog was founded on relationship drama, mine. I was in a relationship with a girl that wasn't working, but... more

On Making Sex Last: Cheerleading & Open Relationships

09/08/2010  |  9 Comments

I’ve asked a couple people recently what their secrets were for their successful long-term relationship, how they keep the passion... more

On Processing & Analyzing

06/07/2010  |  33 Comments

Here's the thing. People have told me—in comments, in emails, sometimes even my friends in person make little comments or... more

Protected: letter to a friend

12/26/2008  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Do you remember: once, we were driving in your car, not sure where we were going, perhaps home from writing class, we spent a lot of time in your car then, but I remember precisely where we were, on the freeway under the Convention Center on I-5, and I think we were coming from an event somewhere, downtown maybe. We were talking about our friends, and living our own truths, and you said you can often see the downfalls and shortcomings of those around you. So I asked you what you thought mine was. "Power," you said. "You don't know your own power, your own strength."more

We’re just getting started

12/20/2008  |  4 Comments

I won't tell you much about this date. There is no scene to report, no interesting beginning-middle-end with links to the toys I used (though I did go through three cocks). I won't speak of the ways I took her, the ways she opened and clenched tight. The tender places we both touched and from which we backed off (too too fragile). I won't speak to her mouth, her mouth, her near-perfect mouth and the way she tosses her head back, mouth open, this half-circle arc, when she comes. more

Define: Courtly

12/08/2008  |  9 Comments

Back in September, I asked for a word for someone who accepts chivalry. We had a lively discussion in the comments about what that person would be called. I really like the word "courtly" - here's why.more