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I'm Sinclair Sexsmith, the kinky queer butch top behind this site. I'm an erotic educator, coach, and writer who studies literature, erotic embodiment, kink, BDSM, leather, and queer, trans, and feminist theory. I prefer the pronouns they and them. More about me and my work at mrsexsmith.com →here’s my number
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Lust Demon on The first week in Juneau and the Northern Exposure kink conference in Anchorage (aka this week in pictures)
Nice collections of natural scenery pictures!Lyn on Protected: I ran over a robin
Oh, the sound of that thud and the sickly sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach; I know that, too...Kyle on Protected: I ran over a robin
As has happened so many times when reading your posts, I am silently saying (me, too). Yes, it stil...Kelley O on Northern Exposure Kink Conference in Anchorage, AK! And: Judging the International Ms. Leather Contest
I miss the Midnight Sun, especially up in Fairbanks where I grew up. Down here in NC, it just isn't ...e on Protected: I ran over a robin
Things come up and come back. Things long buried or long since dealt with. They come back and pres...
- Pride Issue: Why Don’t Lesbians Hook Up Online? in the Village Voice Wednesday, June 19, 2013
- “Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It,” Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman picked up by the Stranger’s Slog Friday, January 11, 2013
- “What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse?” Advice on What They Are Asking Tuesday, December 4, 2012
- The Three Minute Game on Good Vibes Magazine Wednesday, November 7, 2012
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- The Good, Bad, and the Hella Pretty Wednesday, June 12, 2013
- The Obstacle is the Path Wednesday, May 22, 2013
- ‘tsundoku’ - the Japanese word for buying books... Tuesday, May 21, 2013
- White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack Sunday, May 19, 2013
- Useless Sunday, May 19, 2013
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