Posts Tagged ‘consent’

Turn Your Rough Fantasies into Responsible Reality

Turn Your Rough Fantasies into Responsible Reality

12/29/2014  |  No Comments

Everyone has them: Those rough fantasies that involve some sort of thing that you aren't sure you would ever actually... more

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences  ... help!

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences … help!

04/18/2014  |  11 Comments

Dear Mr. Sexsmith,I am a strong, opinionated, sometimes bossy, lesbian. I have a huge passion for the empowerment, education... more

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

02/25/2014  |  13 Comments

One of my biggest challenges as a top—and as a feminist dominant, and as someone who is well versed in... more

On Bruises and Lasting Marks by Kristen

06/05/2012  |  7 Comments

Written by Kristen. Follow her on Twitter @kitchentop.I love getting marked up. I love the little dark fingerprints that fade... more

On Non-Monogamy by Kristen

04/27/2012  |  21 Comments

A piece by Kristen about our open relationship, dating other people, sex, a leather family vision, and BDSM. Follow her... more

Handprints on the Hotel Window

12/12/2011  |  16 Comments

Kristen and I spent the weekend in Chicago, in part to attend a concert, and in part because tomorrow, December... more

Morning Bondage (Review: Scalloped Cuffs & Snap Hooks)

05/17/2010  |  1 Comment

I woke early the other day, with that familiar urge to hold and protect and control Kristen, maybe it's the... more

Hey Seattle: See You Soon! Sex 2.0 Next Weekend

05/11/2010  |  No Comments

I'm heading back to Seattle next weekend, May 22-23, for the Sex 2.0 Conference!I'll be presenting a workshop on Yes,... more

Consent Obsession

02/15/2010  |  6 Comments

I'm realizing that I'm a little bit obsessed with consent, in perhaps a way that is too much. I mean,... more

Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop! Gendering Power 2/19

02/05/2010  |  4 Comments

Come join me at the Lesbian Sex Mafia's February workshop!LSM Presents: Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play with... more