Posts Tagged ‘community’

Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community

Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community

12/16/2014  |  4 Comments

On Facebook recently, Mollena asked: "White ‪#‎SexualityEducators‬: what are you doing to actively foster inclusivity? Diversify your audience? Support your... more

“I wish I could show you … the astonishing light of your own being.”

10/16/2014  |  12 Comments

I read so many things about queer folks and trans folks and genderqueer folks about dating and sex and how... more

The Girl in the Red Dress

The Girl in the Red Dress

07/20/2014  |  No Comments

This story is included in the forthcoming collection Sex Still Spoken Here, the Erotic Reading Circle anthology. At first I'm trying... more

“Under the Desk” Featured in eLust #50

09/17/2013  |  No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every... more

Want to attend the BUTCH Voices 2013 Conference for free?

07/01/2013  |  No Comments

BUTCH Voices 2013 national conference postcards are here! Rife designed them, and I love how they turned out. Now, we... more

More dirty things than you can read in one sitting

05/10/2013  |  1 Comment

Alright, so they're not all dirty. But many of them are very dirty. Definitely R rated, sometimes NC-17. Remember back... more

“Let Them:” A Request To Help Keep Me Writing

05/10/2013  |  11 Comments

TL;DR version: This is a request for financial help. Donate some cash to me, if you can, to keep enabling... more

International Ms. Leather 2013 Begins Tonight! Say Please, Pack n Play Cocks, Happy Hour, More

04/18/2013  |  No Comments

IMsL, the International Ms. Leather contest and one of the biggest gatherings of leather dykes and queers I've ever been... more

Photos from the Dirty Queer Sex Tour: Dallas

12/27/2012  |  1 Comment

I've gone all over the country in the past year to promote the anthology I edited, Say Please: Lesbian BDSM... more

My Dirty Sexy Queer Writer Recommendations

10/04/2012  |  1 Comment

I was interviewed for Time Out NY recently (along with Rachel Kramer Bussel and Rachel Rabbit White and some... more