Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community

December 16th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


“I wish I could show you … the astonishing light of your own being.”

October 16th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


The Girl in the Red Dress (Excerpt from Sex Still Spoken Here)

July 20th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


“Under the Desk” Featured in eLust #50

September 17th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Want to attend the BUTCH Voices 2013 Conference for free?

July 1st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


More dirty things than you can read in one sitting

May 10th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


“Let Them:” A Request To Help Keep Me Writing

May 10th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


International Ms. Leather 2013 Begins Tonight! Say Please, Pack n Play Cocks, Happy Hour, More

April 18th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Photos from the Dirty Queer Sex Tour: Dallas

December 27th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


My Dirty Sexy Queer Writer Recommendations

October 4th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


You’re Invited to (Kinky) Summer Camp 2012

August 17th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


eLust #38 Features “The Three Minute Game” in the Top 3

July 17th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”

July 6th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


eLust #37 Features “Like a Faggot”

June 18th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


One Key Photograph From IMsL, Featuring Sara Vibes and KD Diamond

April 5th, 2012 • 1 minute read • by


eLust #32 includes my story “The Pink Dress”

January 15th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


e[lust] #27 includes “Strapping On for the First Time”

July 12th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Where Did the Week Go?

April 8th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Butch Lab Symposium #2: Call for Participation

February 15th, 2011 • 1 minute read • by


Fantasy: Titillating and Taboo Workshop at the Lesbian Sex Mafia

December 31st, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


It’s Official: ButchLab.com Has Launched!

December 15th, 2010 • 1 minute read • by


Nominations Needed for Top Hot Butches

October 29th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by


e[lust] #20: “On Making Sex Last” is in the Top Three!

September 29th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


E[lust] #18: Summer Sexblog Reads

August 4th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by


e[lust] #15 includes my “Waking Up”

June 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


And the Lezzy Goes To …

March 5th, 2010 • 1 minute read • by


elust #5: Quiet Holiday Version

January 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by


e[lust] #4: Reconciling Butch Top + Feminist in the Top Three!

December 29th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


A New Sex Blog Roundup – e[lust]#2

December 1st, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Party Next Week With the Graces in NYC

September 21st, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Some other announcements

June 16th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Sugasm #164: Slutty little girl.

May 6th, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Pleasurists #20

March 17th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Announcements: Three New Projects

March 17th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Two Lezzys!? Really!?

February 19th, 2009 • 1 minute read • by


Important Calls for Support: Home Alive & Scarleteen

February 18th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by


Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

January 27th, 2009 • 9 minute read • by


Sexual Autonomy & Freedom

January 23rd, 2009 • 4 minute read • by


Call for Contributions: Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy

January 12th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Sugasm #155: Top Three!

December 26th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: sex blogger calendar outtake

December 1st, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Sugasm #152 – editor’s pick!

November 23rd, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


The Sexblogger Calendar Party

November 19th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Sex Blogger Calendar release party – this Friday!

November 10th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


On Love, Post-Election

November 5th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by


We’ve replaced your usual smut with political activism … let’s watch

October 21st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


Vote NO on Prop 8

October 20th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


sugasm #149: editor’s pick!

October 8th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


DC celebrates mothertongue

October 2nd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


about the calendar photo shoot

October 1st, 2008 • 3 minute read • by