Posts Tagged ‘butch/femme’

Giveaway! Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica

03/22/2010  |  67 Comments

Thanks to Cleis Press and Tristan Taormino, I've got TWO copies of the lovely new erotica anthology called Sometimes She... more

Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop! Gendering Power 2/19

02/05/2010  |  4 Comments

Come join me at the Lesbian Sex Mafia's February workshop!LSM Presents: Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play with... more

New Book! Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica

02/05/2010  |  3 Comments

Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica Edited by Tristan Taormino is due out February 16th, and I have a... more

Lipstick Blow Job

01/21/2010  |  10 Comments

Kristen: perfect. well i will come by around 9 then. that is late for dinner but oh well Sinclair: okay, will... more

The Sugarbutch 2009 Holiday Gift Guide

12/09/2009  |  17 Comments

There are some standard gendered gifts - belt buckles, cuff links, handkerchiefs, pocket or wrist watches, ties & tie accessories,... more

Fucking & Making Love

11/11/2009  |  11 Comments

She looked so damn hot yesterday.I don't know what it was exactly. She was in an outfit I've seen, tight... more

Truer: Sophia Wallace’s work in NYC

11/11/2009  |  2 Comments

Sophia Wallace, one of my favorite photographers, has a collection called Truer: An Autobiographical Love Story, which has been included... more

My Evolving Masculinity, Part Two: Yin & Yang

10/14/2009  |  3 Comments

Part Two in a series of five. See also: Part One, IntroductionBeyond the Concepts of Yin & YangI was introduced... more

Definitions of Butch & Femme

09/11/2009  |  22 Comments

Way back in April, for Sugarbutch's third anniversary, I offered up an "ask me anything" thread where readers could ask... more

Review: Hard Love & How to Fuck in High Heels (DVD)

08/17/2009  |  3 Comments

This was absolutely the first butch/femme porn I ever saw, and it blew my mind. I had a VHS version... more