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Review: The Pleasure’s All Mine (book)

January 2, 2009 | reviews | 5 Comments

I picked up The Pleasure's All Mine by Joan Kelly a month or so ago, and it was a pleasing, quick read. Perhaps my hopes were high, thinking she might add to my understanding of being submissive or bottoming, but unfortunately it was moreso a big of a glamorized account of being in a generally dominatrix-dominated field and being submissive.

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Protected: officially seeking bottoms

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