Nothing Says Happy Birthday Like Bondage

Posted on April 7, 2010 in eye candy | No Comments

“Stilettos, bondage tape, and a willing victim always make a fun birthday …”
Thank you!

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Easter Finest

Posted on April 5, 2010 in eye candy | No Comments

Green-eyed Grrrl says: “I was at my parent’s house, washing dishes after Easter dinner and I thought, “4 inch heels (they may be higher, I’d need to borrow your arm to be sure ;), my Easter finest and an apron, that’s kinda sexy.”

Hell yeah!

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Shoes & Thong

Posted on April 4, 2010 in eye candy | 3 Comments

From Sex in Power, via her website

3 Comments | Category: eye candy | Tags: birthday, shoes, tattoos, thong, um ... kinda speechless

The Seal Says Happy Birthday

Posted on April 4, 2010 in eye candy | 6 Comments

We all know who this is, right? Jesse James‘s dawg The Seal (who is on Twitter, @justliketheseal) who probably had some help in borrowing Violet’s shoes. Jesse said, “You don’t have to post this one!” but hel-LO, like I wouldn’t. It is awesome.

The Seal says: “You is a good dyke. Please bring more rubber chickens in your suitcase next time you come visit.”

6 Comments | Category: eye candy | Tags: best friends are awesome, birthday, dawg not dog, hope violet doesn't mind, jesse james, the seal

On the Lawn

Posted on April 4, 2010 in eye candy | 1 Comment

Red ribbon heels from violetwhite, who has another shot over at her own site (and who submitted something last year too). Gorgeous!

1 Comment | Category: eye candy | Tags: birthday, exhibitionism on the front lawn, heels, I don't follow her blog but just added it to the reader and looking forward to reading more, ribbons, she says "I <3 this project", shoes, violetwhite

Ribbons

Posted on April 4, 2010 in eye candy | No Comments

Now that’s what I’m talking about.

Thanks Frances!

No Comments | Category: eye candy | Tags: birthday, gahh I love this kind, if you want me to add a specific tag or caption please include that in your email!, ribbons, shoes

Italian Boots

Posted on April 4, 2010 in eye candy | 1 Comment

Boots from an Italian femme who is visiting New York City soon. Got any recommendations for where she absolutely must visit and what she absolutely must see while she’s here?

1 Comment | Category: eye candy | Tags: birthday, boots, femme, new york city

The First of the Birthday Heels

Posted on April 4, 2010 in eye candy | 2 Comments

Strappy birthday heels and fishnets by Femme is my Gender

2 Comments | Category: eye candy | Tags: birthday, femme, fishnets, shoes, strappy sandals

The Sugarbutch Birthday Tradition

Posted on April 2, 2010 in eye candy | 7 Comments

April 3rd is my birthday, I’m turning 31 tomorrow. I love being in my thirties (fuck those who-am-I finding-myself-bullshit twenties, I’m so ready to be solidly where I’m at). April is also Sugarbutch’s birthday month, I started this site 4 years ago on the 29th. Will have a giveaway or something exciting later this month for that.

Did you flip your 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar to my pinup photo with Audacia Ray yet? I bet there are still calendars to purchase, if you don’t have one yet. WORTH IT, if not only for the blogiversaries and birthdays of your favorite sex bloggers and the sexy photos, then for the discount codes to the best of the best online sex shops!

And those of you who have been following for a while will remember: in the past few years, I have requested for you to send in photos of your most fabulous shoes as a birthday card, if you feel so inspired. “Your most fabulous shoes” can mean anything, the ribbons-around-the-ankles are not required (though oh so hot, gahh). I am really quite partial to the ones that lace up and tie and wrap around, probably it’s a bondage related thing, I’m not quite sure why they are SO DAMN HOT but they just are. Strappy sandals are also awesome. The smaller and more delicate, the better. Mmmmmm.

J. from Toronto, one of my favorites from last year.

Missy, my favorite from 2008.

Oh, and don’t forget the birthday coloring page from Illustrocity!

I’ll post my favorites, with your permission of course. (If you prefer I don’t post them, please let me know.) Send them to or post them on your own blog and leave a comment, so I can be sure to see them & link!

Kristen and I have some birthday plans this weekend, including New York City’s best bloody mary, swing dancing, some small birthday adventures, and drinks with friends. I did have daydreams of getting 30 blowjobs for my 30th birthday, last year, but that didn’t really happen. I should come up with something fun I can request from her this year, though I’m not quite sure what it will be (she does so much for me already!). Suggestions?