Posts Tagged ‘best of’

tips for dating via personal ads

03/15/2008  |  8 Comments

I'm trying this dating thing again, and I've answered a couple of personal ads on Craigslist in the last few... more

careful, your prejudice is showing

03/14/2008  |  7 Comments

Dear Angry Anonymous Girl on Craigslist, The Closet Musician is so right about thickened skin. Reading your posts, I feel the... more

femininity & heterosexism

03/04/2008  |  3 Comments

Figleaf did an interesting experiment with Google over on Real Adult Sex, putting in "attractive," "beautiful," and "worthy" along with... more

nostalgia for the butch/femme dynamic

02/26/2008  |  4 Comments

Sometimes I hear people say they wish they lived in the 50s and 60s so they could experience the butch/femme... more

further thoughts on privilege & gender

02/22/2008  |  7 Comments

One more thing: To Belle, and to the femmes I've dated and fucked and longingly admired: Thank you. Thank you for swooning... more

passing, privilege, & butch/femme

02/22/2008  |  6 Comments

In response to what Belle wrote about privilege, guilt, and butch/femme: I can't speak (write) for all butches, and I do... more

ask for what you want

09/07/2007  |  7 Comments

I want you to only address me as Sir. I want you to start playing with your clit ten minutes before... more

if that’s what you’re into

09/03/2007  |  2 Comments

I'm exploring this conversation about GGG - good, giving, and game. Dan Savage describes it this way: Dan Savage and his... more

top 10 things I love about femmes

08/28/2007  |  6 Comments

Strappy sandals, roman sandals laced up the ankle, legwarmers, flowery skirts - the legs, the legs, the legs The moments of... more

don’t you know it

08/27/2007  |  2 Comments

"Oh fuck - God - yes - fucking hell - holy shit - oh god - god - oh fuck - oh god... more