Posts Tagged ‘best of’

intentional vs ‘natural’ gender

07/07/2008  |  8 Comments

I did not ever mean to attempt that there is some hierarchy in having an "intentional gender" verses a "natural... more

Lesbian stereotypes, reclaiming language, and activism

07/01/2008  |  11 Comments

Yet another case in point: Butch, skinhead, wife-beating, pint drinkers? "Butch, femme, dyke - what kind of lesbian are you? Jeni... more

authority on the internet

06/30/2008  |  13 Comments

"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it,... more

more on butch bras

06/24/2008  |  4 Comments

Thanks, all, for the feedback and comments on that last post. Butch breasts and binding and female masculinity are all... more

on butch breasts

06/24/2008  |  16 Comments

I've returned to earth - mostly - from the altered state of consciousness of the Power, Surrender, & Intimacy workshop... more

In praise of femmes: trust

06/09/2008  |  15 Comments

I'm going to attempt a new series of writings in praise of femmes. This is the first officially, but it... more

On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

05/08/2008  |  7 Comments

I often have conversations with folks who say that they have been perceived femme or butch, and they really don't... more

revised: music to fuck to

04/30/2008  |  27 Comments

I posted a sexmix last year, in August, but I'm constantly revising my playlists. This is the current sexmix tracklist. This is... more

the red tie night, six years ago

04/17/2008  |  9 Comments

I ran across some photos this week of me and jesse james and georgia from almost exactly six years ago... more

How to take butch cock seriously

How to take butch cock seriously

04/08/2008  |  19 Comments

I often get asked about how to start playing with strap-on sex, how to get your partner to stop laughing... more