Posts Tagged ‘best of’

in praise of femmes: the architecture of identity

09/05/2008  |  22 Comments

This is what I learned at the Femme Conference. Oh, the Femme Conference. I have so much to say about what... more

in praise of femmes: hair & shaving

08/28/2008  |  37 Comments

Thanks, all, for your thoughtful responses and life stories about butch hair in the last post. Here's a few of my... more

on butches: hair

08/26/2008  |  31 Comments

I am a butch who shaves. Not my legs, inner thighs, stomach, underarms (though I'll get to those in a moment),... more

The Suspension of Heterosexual Belief (1 of 3)

08/19/2008  |  2 Comments

Part one of three of my review of Spanked I'm reading erotica and watching porn differently these days. For years -... more

romance vs chivalry

08/11/2008  |  16 Comments

What's the difference between romance and chivalry? Colleen and I had an interesting discussion a while back. The two can look... more

Sugarbutch Star Contest 2008: launch!

08/08/2008  |  3 Comments

Well, it’s that time again … I’m doing another Sugarbutch Star Contest! Here’s the deal: YOU send in the details for an... more

Choice feminism & compulsory gender roles

08/01/2008  |  17 Comments

Lady Brett has a new post over at her fabulous blog Don't Let's Talk about feminism and housewifery, and I... more

on butch style: briefs

07/23/2008  |  21 Comments

I still remember the day I had an awakening about my underwear, much like my butch breasts / bras moment... more

creating conscious gender

07/18/2008  |  8 Comments

Seems like I kinda stepped in it with this entire intentional gender thing! Lots of comments and emails about that... more

Review: Packing Cocks 101

Review: Packing Cocks 101

07/14/2008  |  8 Comments

One of my particularly favorite sex toy stores sent me a slew of packing cocks to review - cocks that... more